Topic: nope nope nope
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs started this discussion 13 years ago #27,362
Nope nope.
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beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #409,608
you're an ass
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 30 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,610
I know, bad.
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) double-posted this 13 years ago, 23 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,611
kook !!32zdfdzi+ joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,614
You crushed her hand, and then yelled at her for crying?
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,615
Cheese Cake Factory
Cupcake and I are about to go out for the evening, the plan is to go to baskin robbins, an icecream shop chain if anyone is unaware. I didn't have any money, and Cupcake was willing to pay. Cupcake then decides she would rather go to the cheesecake factory because the dinner was so close to her birthday, and that's where she wanted to go. We arrive there, and get a table, we don't like the table, and get a new one. We end up just getting some appetizers, one of which Cupcake disliked, but that's for a more extended version of this story. Before our meals arrive I present Cupcake with a gift, I got her a cotton candy maker, and I drew her a 5 page comic about the adventures of Cupcake, and Cutie Pie. Anyway, she tells the waiter it's her birthday and they come out, and sing her happy birthday. I suppose that having them sing happy birthday, and then having her pay was a tad awkward for me. Also, I was wearing my work uniform because Lexi asked me to, so that didn't help. Anyway, we leave, and she tells me she's just going home, not for any negative reason, if I remember correctly it had to do with her parents. Okay, so driving through the parkinglot my friend Chris calls me (you remember him from other stories), and I'm like "Not answering that", and I attempt to hang up the phone, Cupcake grabs the phone from me, and attempts to answer it. I then rather angrily grab the phone from her, and end up crushing her hand in the process. She cries, and I tell her about how she should stop crying, and that I don't have time for this shit. I accelerate the car forward about 15mph to get out of an area I didn't want to be in, but Cupcake understandably took this as me driving recklessly in an attempt to scare her. She wanted out of the car, and by that time I was no longer pissed so went into "please, I'm sorry, let me just take you home" mode, she wasn't having it, and called her parents to make sure they knew what was happening or whatever. I insisted upon dropping her off somewhere safe rather than at the intersection, and that ended up being allowed. So I went to the cheesecake factory parking lot, and let her get out, and made sure she was okay. That is the story.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 19 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,616
What....
squeegee !first/o5zA joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,617
> made her pay for her own birthday dinner date
> made her eat food she disliked
> abusively abuse her hand while grabbing a cellphone from her in a fit of rage
> tell her you're too important to deal with her emotions and to stop crying
> scare her with reckless driving
> she desperately wants to be dropped off at any random intersection to get away from you
I don't understand it either, bro. You're doing everything by the book :/
> made her eat food she disliked
> abusively abuse her hand while grabbing a cellphone from her in a fit of rage
> tell her you're too important to deal with her emotions and to stop crying
> scare her with reckless driving
> she desperately wants to be dropped off at any random intersection to get away from you
I don't understand it either, bro. You're doing everything by the book :/
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,618
Tell us about the appetizers
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,619
@409,617 (squeegee !first/o5zA)
This. I honestly don't see any way you could have handled this situation any better than you did. It must be cupcakes fault for being able to feel pain in her hands and not wanting to die in a car accident after her cheap-ass boyfriend wouldn't even offer to pay for her birthday dinner.
This. I honestly don't see any way you could have handled this situation any better than you did. It must be cupcakes fault for being able to feel pain in her hands and not wanting to die in a car accident after her cheap-ass boyfriend wouldn't even offer to pay for her birthday dinner.
!KThEOwLwbU joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,620
Is an appetiser the same as a starter or something different?
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,621
Anonymous E replied with this 13 years ago, 20 seconds later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,622
!KThEOwLwbU replied with this 13 years ago, 59 seconds later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,623
@409,621 (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Wow I was imagining little bitesize things some starters are quire large
I would hate to go to a cheesecake factory on my birthday and be made to eat food I didn't like and pay for it
Wow I was imagining little bitesize things some starters are quire large
I would hate to go to a cheesecake factory on my birthday and be made to eat food I didn't like and pay for it
!KThEOwLwbU double-posted this 13 years ago, 26 seconds later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #409,624
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 41 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,632
@409,617 (squeegee !first/o5zA)
No, she ordered what she wanted. I didn't make her get food she didn't want.
@409,619 (G)
Fuck off. I couldn't pay for the cheesecake factory, and had told her I'd take her somewhere nice once I got my paycheck, I felt really shitty about not being able to take her somewhere that day. All of my actions were my decisions, and therefore my fault. Never have I even implied that this is Cupcake's fault. I did a bad thing, and feel bad about it.
No, she ordered what she wanted. I didn't make her get food she didn't want.
@409,619 (G)
Fuck off. I couldn't pay for the cheesecake factory, and had told her I'd take her somewhere nice once I got my paycheck, I felt really shitty about not being able to take her somewhere that day. All of my actions were my decisions, and therefore my fault. Never have I even implied that this is Cupcake's fault. I did a bad thing, and feel bad about it.
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) double-posted this 13 years ago, 34 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,633
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) triple-posted this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,634
@409,617 (squeegee !first/o5zA)
Also, wrong, it was just coming out of the parking lot, and I just wanted to drop her off somewhere safe. Which she agreed to. Did you want me to drop her off at the intersection?
Also, wrong, it was just coming out of the parking lot, and I just wanted to drop her off somewhere safe. Which she agreed to. Did you want me to drop her off at the intersection?
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,636
what was the problem with the appetizers? what would have happened if she would have answered the phone?
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,637
@previous (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
It was some guacamole thing, I actually liked them lol. Kind of a funny story, I thought they'd be bad, and warned against them. She insisted on them because she's paying, and her birthday. Understandable. I end up liking them, and she ends up hating them. Nothing would have happened, Chris and Lexi would have had some small talk I suppose.
It was some guacamole thing, I actually liked them lol. Kind of a funny story, I thought they'd be bad, and warned against them. She insisted on them because she's paying, and her birthday. Understandable. I end up liking them, and she ends up hating them. Nothing would have happened, Chris and Lexi would have had some small talk I suppose.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,638
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 22 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,639
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,640
@409,638 (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
It was just a split second thing. I don't know why I got so pissed, actually. It was more of me disliking her going against me at all. I was already in a bad mood, so the normal me who would either let it go, or do something more calculated and calm was gone.
It was just a split second thing. I don't know why I got so pissed, actually. It was more of me disliking her going against me at all. I was already in a bad mood, so the normal me who would either let it go, or do something more calculated and calm was gone.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #409,643
Syntax joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 32 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,645
This is beyond easy to analyze.
Not every problem has a solution.
Postmortem ≠Cupcake, in any possible relationship.
Dude move on or you end up trapped in a black hole.
1000 stories in the nakkid city of chans and your breakups with Cupcake, are so over the top its no longer funny.
Not every problem has a solution.
Postmortem ≠Cupcake, in any possible relationship.
Dude move on or you end up trapped in a black hole.
1000 stories in the nakkid city of chans and your breakups with Cupcake, are so over the top its no longer funny.
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 23 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,649
@409,643 (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
I should make clear that I wasn't trying to hurt her. I was trying to grab the phone.
I should make clear that I wasn't trying to hurt her. I was trying to grab the phone.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,664
@previous (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
But you still hurt her. Why not see a mental health professional?
But you still hurt her. Why not see a mental health professional?
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,701
@previous (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
Because me getting angry and grabbing for a phone is shitty, but not mentally unsound. Besides this is a singular occurence, if it were a regular thing then maybe you'd have a point.
Because me getting angry and grabbing for a phone is shitty, but not mentally unsound. Besides this is a singular occurence, if it were a regular thing then maybe you'd have a point.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,705
Syntax replied with this 13 years ago, 34 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,716
Someone and no clue who - did a Google search on you and cupcake.
More: http://www.google.com/search?safe=off&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=cupcake+site:minichan.org
Goes a full 15 pages on Google of this Trauma.
Perhaps if you do a review of?
Say dude can you add 1+1= and then 2+2= and so on.
15 Pages on Google. Get a clue ....
Just Saying
More: http://www.google.com/search?safe=off&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=cupcake+site:minichan.org
Goes a full 15 pages on Google of this Trauma.
Perhaps if you do a review of?
Say dude can you add 1+1= and then 2+2= and so on.
15 Pages on Google. Get a clue ....
Just Saying
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 52 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,728
@previous (Syntax)
Not all of it is bad, not all of it is by me. But I get what you're getting at. Also, a certain level of nostalgia was obtained looking at that.
Not all of it is bad, not all of it is by me. But I get what you're getting at. Also, a certain level of nostalgia was obtained looking at that.
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Syntax replied with this 13 years ago, 30 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,741
@previous (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
Nor did I mean to imply the ratio of good or bad.
But do that math as I did.
Nor did I mean to imply the ratio of good or bad.
But do that math as I did.
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 37 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,760
!KThEOwLwbU replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,761
@409,633 (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
So what, is a starter something else in america then? were they like hors doeuvre or something?
So what, is a starter something else in america then? were they like hors doeuvre or something?
!KThEOwLwbU double-posted this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,763
@409,640 (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)> I don't know why I got so pissed, actually. It was more of me disliking her going against me at all.
HaikerensGuide !0VegJ9Jl.Q joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 18 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,771
Jesus, man. You're kind of an abusive partner.
henn the lord of cocks joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,772
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 12 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,775
@409,771 (HaikerensGuide !0VegJ9Jl.Q)
@previous (henn the lord of cocks)
No, I didn't twist her wrist. I grabbed at my phone, and grabbed her hand on accident.
@previous (henn the lord of cocks)
No, I didn't twist her wrist. I grabbed at my phone, and grabbed her hand on accident.
HaikerensGuide !0VegJ9Jl.Q replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,777
@409,772 (henn the lord of cocks)
I know, right? What the fuck.
@previous (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
And you broke her hand by accident and then you immediately floor your car after she paid for a meal for you?
I know, right? What the fuck.
@previous (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
And you broke her hand by accident and then you immediately floor your car after she paid for a meal for you?
squeegee !first/o5zA replied with this 13 years ago, 36 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,778
henn the lord of cocks replied with this 13 years ago, 25 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,788
@409,775 (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
Honestly, you may need to see a therapist. Your first thought shouldn't be to impulsively grab your phone out of her hands with force and not notice if it was her hand or not. I wouldn't even blame that on being drunk (which you weren't). Trust me when I say I have seen some serious domestic violence and in some cases I wasn't able to do or say anything. If you feel you need to do that to have some sort of control over your life that you do not have currently, please ask your parents if they can schedule an appointment with a therapist. If you really love Cupcake, this is where I would start.
Honestly, you may need to see a therapist. Your first thought shouldn't be to impulsively grab your phone out of her hands with force and not notice if it was her hand or not. I wouldn't even blame that on being drunk (which you weren't). Trust me when I say I have seen some serious domestic violence and in some cases I wasn't able to do or say anything. If you feel you need to do that to have some sort of control over your life that you do not have currently, please ask your parents if they can schedule an appointment with a therapist. If you really love Cupcake, this is where I would start.
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postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 19 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,809
@previous (henn the lord of cocks)
I have no inclination to hurt her or anybody else. I felt terrible the moment I grabbed her hand on accident.
I have no inclination to hurt her or anybody else. I felt terrible the moment I grabbed her hand on accident.
postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs (OP) double-posted this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,812
@409,777 (HaikerensGuide !0VegJ9Jl.Q)
I didn't break her hand, I didn't even damage her hand. I was actually going 5 in a 15mph, and pulled it up to 15mph, the speed limit. It wasn't even in an attempt to be reckless, there were all these cones, and I wasn't sure I could be there, so I quickly got to an area where there were other cars. I would never put Cupcake in any real danger.
I didn't break her hand, I didn't even damage her hand. I was actually going 5 in a 15mph, and pulled it up to 15mph, the speed limit. It wasn't even in an attempt to be reckless, there were all these cones, and I wasn't sure I could be there, so I quickly got to an area where there were other cars. I would never put Cupcake in any real danger.
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 22 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,814
@409,809 (postmortem !nZ1lBgbHQs)
Do you think you have decent impulse control? You talk a lot about how badly you feel about things you've done. I'm not sure if it's you trying to manipulate people with your feelings of guilt, or if it's just that you don't know how to control yourself in the first place.
Do you think you have decent impulse control? You talk a lot about how badly you feel about things you've done. I'm not sure if it's you trying to manipulate people with your feelings of guilt, or if it's just that you don't know how to control yourself in the first place.
henn the lord of cocks replied with this 13 years ago, 8 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #409,831
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 12 years ago, 1 month later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,894
bump
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 3 hours later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,936
@previous (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
See the simple mistrake he made was not staying within his means.
A locale where he could make a fire ring. Hotdogs on a stick and marshmallows for dessert. Maybe buns n mustard but not really necessary.
Free romantic location and stars and simple food.
See the simple mistrake he made was not staying within his means.
A locale where he could make a fire ring. Hotdogs on a stick and marshmallows for dessert. Maybe buns n mustard but not really necessary.
Free romantic location and stars and simple food.
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!KThEOwLwbU replied with this 12 years ago, 35 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,939
@previous (Syntax)
perhaps he could also ritually strip naked, enter the sea with her and sacrifice a newborn lamb to the ocean god
perhaps he could also ritually strip naked, enter the sea with her and sacrifice a newborn lamb to the ocean god
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,940
@previous (!KThEOwLwbU)
Yea that might work but I really enjoy lamb for dinner, so unless the lamb ends up as useful for a meal, then I reject your idea.
Yea that might work but I really enjoy lamb for dinner, so unless the lamb ends up as useful for a meal, then I reject your idea.
!KThEOwLwbU replied with this 12 years ago, 23 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,941
@previous (Syntax)
No but you'll please the dark lord of the depths and he will reward you with some gnarly crests
No but you'll please the dark lord of the depths and he will reward you with some gnarly crests
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 14 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #420,943
@previous (!KThEOwLwbU)Well now that gives me something to think about. In my depths Sharks are always on ones mind. Less then 2 miles south of me, there is now one less Surfer on Planet Earth as result.