Topic: Having a vagina means having no real problems.
Anonymous A started this discussion 13 years ago#25,989
Women don't have to do anything, not even a driver's license, get their men to drive them everywhere, pay for everything, and the courts force their ex's to pay too. Women aren't raised to suppress their emotions and have an easy time making friends throughout all their life. Most people always are nice to them and protective because they're women. Whenever you see a pretty woman who's always happy and sweet, she's only like that because everyone is nice to her, it's kind of an instinct if people look nice and instinct to do the opposite when someone's ugly. And even online, forum moderators automatically worship you, both men and women.
What if Matt Miller was female? No matter all the stuff Syntax talks about, nobody's ruin his life for the stuff he's done.
Of course, women whine and whine about how they get men who treat them badly, but women who look good have hundreds of men a day hitting on them. They just choose a bad one. Even if most are bad, when a woman finds a nice guy, she treats him badly, such as sending an army of stalkers after him to drive him to suicide.
TL;DR: Living your life as a female is life on easy mode.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 replied with this 13 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#393,825
@previous (A)
If you think that women are the cause of most of the worlds problems, you're a joke. Men commit the most crimes. Men commit the most murders, but yet you think that women whine too much, because more men are killed by men? That makes sense.
> If you think that women are the cause of most of the worlds problems, you're a joke.
I think the majority of people are the cause. Even if the world leaders are bad, the people like them.
> Men commit the most crimes. Men commit the most murders, but yet you think that women whine too much, because more men are killed by men? That makes sense.
Women have it EASY though. Well specifically white women in cultures like America. Not women 500 years ago when they were oppressed.
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,842
My dad helped a middle-aged woman do her taxes today, because she just got divorced last year and had never done her own taxes before. I figured that shit out when I was 17.
Women do have it easy, but it's not their fault. It's because our society pampers them and puts them down on a lower level where less is expected of them. They want equality so give it to them. Stop paying for drinks, stop paying for dinners, stop paying for all her shit and make her get a job, and if you live together or are married make sure she's paying her fair share. Make her get her own car. This is not to mean or to punish her. The relationship is healthier when you are equals. They have it easy because men let them off easy. End the double standard.
The Norwegian Prison system is based on how a relaxing environment makes people less prone to violence. Women are given a lot more relaxing environment than men. Granted hormones play a role.
> the majority of bad people are men. School shooters men, stalkers men, murderers men.
A majority of the great inventors and thinkers were also men. You're able to bash men here right because of engineering feats designed, built, and maintained by a largely male workforce. But let's only look at the bad men, herp derp.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 19 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,925
@393,916 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
I didn't say that. Come on, I'm not some troll on scatchan who wants to make 500 threads calling you a bitch. We can discuss this maturely. I'm just interested in your reasoning.
I agree that the acts you described are mostly carried out by men, but think that this is because of reasons deeper than just their gender itself.
Would you agree that the majority of men do not engage in the atrocities that you mentioned?
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,930
@393,927 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
Biology has a big role in causing aggressive behaviour. Obviously men are biologically more predisposed to aggression, since they evolved to be hunters, have higher levels of testosterone ect. Genes may also have an influence.
For example, a few years back it was discovered that some men had a variant of a gene called the MAOA gene that was associated with aggression (women can't have it since they have two X chromosomes, thus if one of their chromosomes has the variant then they have a spare).
Obviously the enviroment is an influence too, but biological factors shouldn't be discounted.
I guess my main issue with your statements is that, while they're grounded in fact, you phrase it in a way that you're criticising the entire gender. We shouldn't get fixated on how one gender includes more violent people than the other, but should instead focus the violent people themselves and what makes them violent.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,931
@previous (J)
This whole discussion was grounded in gender before I even got here. Also, when one gender is way more violent than the other, it only makes sense to focus on the one gender. If a problem cant be named, it cant be fixed.
squeegee joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,933
@previous (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
But... Many men are of high quality and are not aggressive. Also, i've met plenty of crazy, emotional manipulative women.
But, i don't judge or condemn all women becuase a few i've met were crazy.
It's bad comedians on TV the reduce an entire gender to the actions of a few.
Not all women are emotional nut jobs, and not all men are violent maniacs.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,934
@393,931 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4) > it only makes sense to focus on the one gender
Initially, perhaps. To use the study I mentioned, the researchers went in looking at male gang members (and non-gang males as a control group). However, once they'd identified the MAOA variant as a common factor in the aggressive males, the focus shifted from the gender to the gene and the individuals that carried it.
> If a problem cant be named, it cant be fixed.
That's a bit pessimistic. Scientists have identified lots of probable causes for the behaviour of violent individuals, which will likely lead to treatments and preventative measures.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,935
@393,933 (squeegee)
I dont judge or condemn an entire gender. You can look at my entire posting history, no man hating. I only respond to woman hating threads like this.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 double-posted this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#393,937
@393,934 (J)
Initially? Its not happening right now. People are not taking responsibility for their own actions, or judging the culture that perpetuates these things.
> Leonidas is just a hard working nice guy who has been friendzoned by cruel women seeking to hurt him.
I never had a female friend who did that. Who are you talking of? All the women who were my friends, were nice, like many years ago one helped me by lending me money. I don't want to talk about ones in real life, but for instance Ducky tried to protect me on Tinychan. And she probably knows when I post anon, because every other anon is rude to her.
Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 21 hours after the original post[^][v]#394,070
@previous (A)
They also aren't conditioned to violence by society like with males. That's why in countries where there's more rapes, the men dont have extra testosterone.
Society tells men every relationship is bad, which is a limiting belief that if you believe this then it will result in your relationships being bad. Men are also told that love isn't real and the only thing that matters is getting laid. That your entire status as a man is how many women you get. I don't know if women even know this. This kind of stuff men are told is behind a lot of bad sexual behavior of guys.
Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 9 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^][v]#394,084
@previous (A)
I know. They're also told that they deserve hot women, no matter how they look, or act. Its weird because they also self police each other, when one tries to leave this stereotype.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 3 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,139
I will tell you of the difficulties of having a PENIS. (4chan highlights this word so I am here.)
When I wake up from sleep, my PENIS point straight up from an erection and urine sprays straight up. There is no way I can calm it down and I have to go too badly so I have to pee in the shower. But it still will spray with the force of a pressure hose directly at the ceiling. At hardware stores there's thin plastic wraps that are cheap for a large area. I have squares precut to cover my PENIS. However it sprays up and rains down. So I pee in the shower and piss all over myself. Then I rinse off and my skin is dry from the warm water.
I also wake up several times in the middle of the night and must do this each time. Girls you think cramps are difficult, this happens every day.
Next comes, the prostate. If I don't clear it out, it hurts bad and makes me crazy. But when ejeculate do, well it clogs where urine comes out and semen sticks to my PENIS and when I pee, it comes out like wiper fluid from a car -- in two directions! You aim this bad boy at a toilet and it lands on the floor to the right and the left of it. Soo I go in the shower.
I also must clean the shower every day because it stinks like mad.
And women, this is what every guy goes through in their life. Guys deny this out of shame, and I'm sure people here in this thread will use their super mature insults like "retarded", "autistic", "faggot, etc because they think it's convincing, but fact is it's true. It even says so on Wikipedia.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 41 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,148
@394,093 (A)
Other people are mean too, you retard. See? I was "mean" to you right then!
@393,937 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
These don't seem to have anything to do with gender. When I said initially, I was talking shout the researchers and saying that it's a good example to follow, not that society actually follows it.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,207
@previous (C)
Not all biology is unchangeable, we shouldn't just disregard it when trying to address the problem. Example, I read a study recently were it was found that lots of imprisoned youth had genes that increased their dopamine to above normal levels. Now obviously we can't do anything about he genes, but there's likely medication for their dopamine levels, and we could give them medication to see if it helps.
But yeah, socialisation could definitely be changed for the better. Enviroment is as important as biology.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,209
@previous (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
Probably. Didn't read that in the parts I read but it's often the case. It's fascinating how biology and environment often overlap in issues like this.
What would you suggest for improving socialisation? It does seem like it'd be difficult to change.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,210
@previous (J)
Any change will be very hard, we'd have to look at it by a culture to culture basis, because some cultures have a much bigger problem with these types of crimes. It would probably take a literal overhaul, or religion and media for one.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,211
@previous (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
I think we're slowly improving with religion, since more and more people are questioning religion and thus taking away its legitimacy. Similar thing could be happening with the media, e.g lots of people call Fox News out on their nonsense.
These things are mostly happening in our culture, but the rise of the internet is spreading these things to other places too.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 replied with this 13 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,213
@previous (J)
We might be improving with religion, but it almost seems like we are keeping many of its bad qualities. Look how we treat women who do have sex, not just promiscuous women, but also prostitutes, and rape victims. Also, our culture tells men that they deserve an attractive women no matter their own flaws, and we tell them that they aren't real men if they aren't having sex. Combine these things with our country's current issues about birth control, abortion, childcare, and healthcare, and the whole thing is one nasty cluster fuck.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 double-posted this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,214
@394,211 (J)
We also have this mindset of, men are going to rape no matter what, so women had better watch out. So when bad things do happen we respond with "Oh, why were you drinking with him?" or "Why did you go to his apartment if you didn't want to fuck?" We even try and lay blame on gangrape victims, because we don't wish to hold men accountable.
buspup !!x+kkCmnF4 triple-posted this 13 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,215
@previous (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
I'm not just calling out America, because this happens all over the world.
A woman who was gangraped to death, blamed by the defense lawyer because he's never seen a respectable women being attacked
She's also blamed by a popular spiritual leader because she didn't pray the attackers away.
Quotes:
"Until today I have not seen a single incident or example of rape with a respected lady," Manohar Lal Sharma said, according to the Bloomberg report. "Even an underworld don would not like to touch a girl with respect."
Guilt is not one-sided," Indian spiritual leader Asaram Bapu, told followers earlier in the week, adding that if the woman had pleaded with her six attackers in God's name, and told them she was of the "weaker sex," they would have relented, Reuters reported.
Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#394,216
@394,214 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4) > We also have this mindset of, men are going to rape no matter what, so women had better watch out. So when bad things do happen we respond with "Oh, why were you drinking with him?" or "Why did you go to his apartment if you didn't want to fuck?" We even try and lay blame on gangrape victims, because we don't wish to hold men accountable.
A positive thing is that this attitude is quite synonymous with Republicanism, which also losing its legitimacy. Does fix the problem by itself but it helps, and advocacy and support groups must be making some headway.
@394,213 (buspup !!x+kkCmnF4)
I think the whole "men need to be manly" thing is quite deeply ingrained. S'pose the best that can be done is trying to educate people.
> Look how we treat women who do have sex, not just promiscuous women, but also prostitutes, and rape victims.
That's not so much of an issue in this country. If seems to be a cultural thing then I'd imagine that it's tied to religion/republicanism, so hopefully it'll lose steam alongside those.
Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 12 years later, 12 years after the original post[^][v]#1,334,823
The search function on this forum can be weird sometimes. I was trying to find a Christmas horror film thread I made a while back and this was the 2nd suggestion.
The biggest concern that those who possess a vagina have to worry about are creepy faggots (See: @OP) coming onto them hoping to stick their dicks into it and violating their personal boundaries.