Anonymous A started this discussion 13 years ago#24,891
How does being with someone who failed their first semester of community college fit in with them?
As a female, your appearance is not going to improve as you age. Remember: the market value of males tends to increase with time, while your value decreases. ALWAYS evaluate the long-term growth potential of your investments.
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later[^][v]#382,578
I'm still in college. For all you know I could make straight A's next semester. (If it happens you will know as I'll tell MC like 200 times.)
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 52 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^][v]#382,580
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
No. I know that's not going to happen.
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^][v]#382,583
@previous (A)
You'll see. I'm starting my next semester tomorrow. If I get A's I'll provide proof and such.
Tony Brown joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^][v]#382,585
@382,578 (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
Community college?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 34 seconds later, 8 minutes after the original post[^][v]#382,586
@382,583 (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
That is disturbing. Arguably the biggest variable in your recovery is how much do you want to heal? Are you only in therapy to appease a spouse, family, or maybe a coworker or boss? If so the chances of your therapy bringing any true healing ranges between slim and none. You may be able to develop some new skills, but in all likelihood true recovery will remain elusive. Therapy will require you to experience extreme pain, view areas of your life that will make you very uncomfortable, and will drain you at physical and emotional levels. Being able to sustain yourself and do this work will require a deep commitment unlike any you've likely ever made at any other juncture in your existence. It most definitely can be accomplished but you have to want it almost more than you have ever wanted anything before. You will have to push yourself to keep going even when you want to stop. How well you are able to experience and resolve conflicts, depression and other events throughout your therapy will depend to a large extent on this single question: How much do you really want it?
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 minutes after the original post[^][v]#382,587
★henn★ joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#382,643
Go to art school cupcake!
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#382,650
@previous (★henn★)
I've suggested that to her. I think she has a more practical mindset though. I'll support whatever she decides to do though, obviously.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 37 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#382,651
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
Goddamn, you're a retard.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#382,719
@previous (A)
Admit it- your relentless assault on postmortem is driven by your secret desire for him. You just want his attention, I bet.