mechano !p9BztkvL3U started this discussion 14 years ago#24,584
I am seeking advice through reading your own introspective analysis.
Let's say you've officially met the "girl of your dreams". By that, I mean she has everything you want out of a woman, and you love everything about her.
This woman is basically your ideal partner. Her emotional characteristics, to her behaviors, hobbies, interests, and of course, her physical beauty as well. She has it all; everything you have been looking for.
Think about this rationally, for I have "fallen in love" and cannot...
How much shit would you be willing to go through to get this girl? How many relationships would you wait through? How much abuse would you put up with from others? How much would you be willing to change about yourself? ...etc.?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later[^][v]#379,463
Does she actually like you?
Syntax joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,464
> How much abuse would you put up with from others?
Way would others abuse you? Need more info
> How much would you be willing to change about yourself?
If she does not accept you with all your flaws...Not one chance in hell a relationship will work. Sure therapy can make a huge difference, if you spend more then just the hour per week of a session. But basically you will end up as the same person and just feel more better about yourself.
> How much shit would you be willing to go through to get this girl?
Need more info but if you mean the girl is currently attached? Anyway not enough info to offer much advice OTHER then the change of self for her is total fail.
mechano !p9BztkvL3U (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 3 seconds later, 6 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,465
@379,463 (B)
Yes (supposedly), but she tells me to wait for her and be patient. I've waited through numerous relationships of hers with other guys, and I can't take it anymore. Now that she's finally single, she's worn out from previous relationships. So, I'm left hanging once again.
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★henn★ joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,466
@OP
What the fucking hell do you want from her? God damn. You think you're gonna spend the rest of your life with this chick?
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,467
None of the above. She is none of these things unless she accepts you as you are. Change nothing.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,469
@379,465 (mechano !p9BztkvL3U)
Is this like a long-distance type thing? Because if you guys are "perfect" for each other then you would be dating by now, assuming you live near each other.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 35 seconds later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,470
@379,465 (mechano !p9BztkvL3U)
op, women like to spend their youth partying and fuckin alpha douchebags. Then when they get too old for that, they find a nice beta guy to settle down with and have a family with.
Sounds like your woman is still in that partying stage where she wants to fuck alphas and wants to keep you in her back pocket until she is ready to settle down with a beta.
Out of curiosity OP, what is your wealth/job?? Do you come from money by any chance?
mechano !p9BztkvL3U (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 46 seconds later, 13 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,471
@379,467 (E)
Sigh. I know you're right, but I feel as though she's worth changing...
Syntax replied with this 14 years ago, 37 seconds later, 14 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,472
@379,465 (mechano !p9BztkvL3U) > Now that she's finally single, she's worn out from previous relationships.
Smart gal because its never a good idea to date someone right after a break up. Rebound effect has so many reasons for fail. I have made that mistrake and learned from it as to not repeat such.
mechano !p9BztkvL3U (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 7 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,478
@379,470 (G)
I suspected I was her "back-up", or something similar to what you're describing. But I just don't know, man.
Also, I am not wealthy at all.
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 20 minutes later, 41 minutes after the original post[^][v]#379,481
OP is a faggot
Green joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 5 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#379,600
> How many relationships would you wait through?
So you're dating other women as well?
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 13 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^][v]#379,804
I already met her. The kind of girl that I for a long time thought I had 0 chance with. Luckily, it seems I am also the guy of her dreams so y'know, maybe the same might happen to you.
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 17 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^][v]#379,817
date someone else and when she complains about it, ask her to wait for you.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 20 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^][v]#379,827