Topic: Serious question about the shooting (and other tragedies)
Anonymous A started this discussion 14 years ago#24,104
How sad did it actually make you? Obviously it was a terrible thing that happened, no one supports it, but what did it actually make you feel? Did you cry? Did it make you feel down? Did you feel a wince of pain?
Or did you feel nothing other than a purely intellectual condemnation of what happened?
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 57 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#374,393
No emotional reaction. Not even a mental thing, I just kind of think "shit happens".
beckyderp !CATLDyPIBQ joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 59 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,395
@previous (D)
No emotional reaction, but I did react mentally thinking how bad it was. If I were to see an interview or something with one of the families, I'd probably feel really sad. Otherwise it's just a faceless number to me
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 13 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,396
Yeah it's like 8 days to Christmas, they'll have the presents wrapped and everything. The parents will have to throw the presents away. I feel a little ill.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 48 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,397
> Yeah it's like 8 days to Christmas, they'll have the presents wrapped and everything. The parents will have to throw the presents away. I feel a little ill.
Ya fuckin sux. So sad. Life is so short
derpy !hoovesEJmo joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 11 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,402
Well it's still sad. In fact that's even sadder. Just, the fucking presents. I can't get the image of boxes of unopened presents and a silent Christmas morning out of my head.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 37 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,422
Cried a little. female.
doctor dreamworks md !jdTkvovFCQ joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,433
what shooting? the batman shooting which was done during the wrong movie because the guy was retarded??
Green joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,439
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 21 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,484
Faceless statistics to me sorry to disappoint. We've discussed this already, you're sad cause it hit the news.
When was the last time you cried or felt sad for all the kiddos in africa that are starving, dancing on the fine line between life and death eating random crap they can find till they die. And that's just one example. People die horrible deaths around the globe all the time. I'm glad news don't bring it all to the TV in your living room, you'd be depressed, sad and crying for the rest of your lives.
It is horrible, and best of luck to family and friends, but it didn't affect me in any way.
Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 54 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,487
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
Yep, we're not allowed to cry because Africans are dying.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,494
@previous (B)
You have compassion my ass, you don't weep for the millions of starving children and you use this tragedy as an opportunity to espouse the impression that you are morally superior... that's the purest form of demented sociopathy available.
Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 17 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,498
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
There is a little something known as "shock", buddy. Africans starve every day, but school shootings rarely happen. When they do happen, it's shocking because it is unexpected.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 15 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,501
@previous (B)
Being shocked makes you cry? Interesting...
Anonymous R joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 4 seconds later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,502
@374,494 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
People are allowed to be upset about this, you cynical bastard. If you think that someone needs to be sad about all human suffering everywhere to not be a hypocrite then you're retarded.
squeegee joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,503
@374,494 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
I think part of it is that we're not starving africans.And the kids who were killed in the shooting were not starving african babies, but middle class american babies. It's easier to empathize with people you have a great number of similarities too. Seeing pictures of the parents having just learned their child was dead was especially hard, but seeing starving african children doesn't resonate as deeply with me because they are not middle class americans.
If the news showed pictures of middle class american kids starving on the streets of america, i would empathize more with them because it's easier to see myself with starving children when the starving is so close to home.
Tl;dr in order to empathize with people you have to internalize their hardships and feel them as your own. That's just easier to do with people from your own culture.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 37 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,511
Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,513
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k) > Jap
Never heard of that in svenska.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,515
@previous (B)
Happy now? Was on my phone, paying attention to something else, don't know what I was thinking about while writing that.
Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,517
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
But Y is not a consonant in Swedish. It is more like the German Ü, or the French U, or even the Finnish Y. It is never used as a substitute for the Swedish J.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 6 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,519
@previous (B)
For someone so sad and mad about the shooting, you're being quite a douche. I guess you're letting all the anger out on me. If it helps you cope with the pain, I'm here for you.
Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 6 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,524
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
School shootings are no excuse for language butchery.
squeegee replied with this 14 years ago, 17 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,538
@previous (B)
He's obviously upset about this whole thing, cut him some slack.
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Anonymous B replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,539
@previous (squeegee)
He is upset because an African died just now.
TTEH !JXsxEkDBLs replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,540
@previous (B)
Did the thought of that bring you to tears? Because if not, you are never allowed to be sad about anything ever again.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,543
> "oh look people are using this sad event to push their political views" then no more thought put into it. male
what a stupid argument, "If you really cared you would just cry and do nothing instead of doing something that will actually make it harder for something like this to happen again."
Anonymous D replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^][v]#374,596
@374,439 (Green)
Exactly, it's very distant. Obviously if someone I knew died in the tragedy I'd be upset, but that isn't the case. I don't know these people so how am I to feel something for them?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,673
@374,559 (Born this Way !dLadyGAgAA)
Like end "gun-free zones"? Like arguing that greater gun ownership would prevent such tragedies?
I have a feeling that you and many others would be offended (understandably so) by such arguments immediately after the event. It seems dishonest to make an exemption for one class of argument.
beckyderp !CATLDyPIBQ replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,680
@previous (A)
Because those arguments are retarded.
Anonymous F replied with this 14 years ago, 7 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,797
No, it makes perfect sense. If we had simply made sure that all of those dead toddlers had gone to school with Barrett XM500s strapped to their back every single day and installed mounted machine guns in every classroom, this tragedy would never have happened.
On a side note, I was watching the news yesterday and this story came on and they'd interviewed a teacher who said that she'd told the children that she wanted them to know that she loved them all very much because she thought that was the last thing they were ever going to hear and that was very sad.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,802
@374,680 (beckyderp !CATLDyPIBQ)
Isn't it better if we maybe wait until the children are buried before we start hurling around the R word? Remember, a significant amount of the population considers all attempts at gun control to be "retarded".
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 14 years ago, 46 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,803
@374,797 (F)
This is what we're trying to avoid. That was a pretty gross post. Unnecessary.
Anonymous F replied with this 14 years ago, 26 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,808
Born this Way !dLadyGAgAA replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,845
@374,673 (A)
Greater access to guns caused this. The shooter used a rifle that, 8 years ago, was illegal to own, to shoot a hole in the wall of the school so he could get inside. He didn't have to go out and buy a gun on the black market, he just had to go home and steal one from his mom, who apparently was not responsible enough to keep them locked away so only she, the person the guns were licensed to, could access them. That's what happens when anyone can own a gun, when it's treated so casually.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#374,863
@previous (Born this Way !dLadyGAgAA)
But not anyone could own a gun. He couldn't own a gun. He had to steal one.
I would suggest that if one has a severely disturbed mentally ill person (as he seemed to be) living with you, you should keep all possible weapons secure.
Anonymous U joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 38 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#374,871
@374,845 (Born this Way !dLadyGAgAA)
For fuck sake, every time you post it's a bunch of retarded liberal horseshit.
Do you know what the difference is between an "assault rifle" and a regular hunting rifle? A hunting rifle has a wooden stock while an "assault rifle" has a metal stock. The gun he used was a semi-automatic .223. If it were banned, he would have used a semi-automatic .223 hunting rifle. Basically the same gun with a wooden stock that doesn't look as black and scary. There are other minor difference like pistol grips and foldable stocks that California has tried to ban, but if you think little difference like that would make a difference, you're fucking retarded.
Shut the fuck up you pansy ass faggot.
Anonymous U double-posted this 14 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#374,872
This shit doesn't happen because of easy access to guns. This shit happens because we live in a fucked up culture where people go off their rocker and decide to kill a bunch of people to go out with a bang. It happens because mental health is not taken seriously in America, and because the media sensationalizes it. If you think a huge government gun grab is going to solve all our problems, you're fucking retarded and/or you're a faggot who's simply afraid of guns. Ban guns completely and psychopaths like this will still get guns illegally, or kill people with other weapons, or build bombs, or set building on fire, or do whatever they have to do to kill a bunch of people because they're fucking psychopaths.
If you take guns away from law-abiding level-headed citizens, all you do is create a society where criminals and psychopaths have guns, but innocent people don't have them to protect themselves. Gun laws to keep people from owning bazookas, and fully automatic weapons I'm fine with. Gun laws to keep guns out of the hand and criminals and psychopaths I'm fine with. But if you think banning guns completely and for everyone forever is going to stop this shit from happening, you're fucking retarded. It does nothing to get the psychopaths in our society under control. You're politicizing these events to further your bullshit anti-gun agenda.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 14 years ago, 44 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#374,877
@previous (U)
Goddamn, you're right! Why, all them statistics what say that there's fewer gun-related deaths in states what have stricter gun laws must be Liberal socialist homosexual propaganda!
beckyderp !CATLDyPIBQ replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#374,878
Anonymous N replied with this 14 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#374,915
@374,877 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
And there's fewer vehicle related deaths in countries with less cars. And Japan's gun-related suicide rate went down when they banned all guns, but the suicide rate didn't really go down. It doesn't mean shit. There are lots of places with very strict gun laws but still have high violent crime, like Chicago, London, and Detroit, and there are still places like Czech Republic where everyone owns guns and crime is low. It has more to do with the culture than the gun laws. And even if you're right, you still ignored my half my point, which is that you're ignoring the main problem by trying to make this about your anti-gun agenda. A psychopath committed mass murder and he could have easily done it without guns, so why don't we talk about why there are psychopaths who do these things in our society instead of pretending the solution is to take guns away from all law abiding citizens.
Anonymous F replied with this 14 years ago, 10 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#375,048
Anonymous N double-posted this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[^][v]#375,243
@375,049 (V)
Fascinating article. I especially liked:
"No motive was given for the stabbings, which echo a string of similar assaults against schoolchildren in 2010 that killed nearly 20 and wounded more than 50. The most recent such attack took place in August, when a knife-wielding man broke into a middle school in the southern city of Nanchang and stabbed two students before fleeing.
Most of the attackers have been mentally disturbed men involved in personal disputes or unable to adjust to the rapid pace of social change in China, underscoring grave weaknesses in the antiquated Chinese medical system's ability to diagnose and treat psychiatric illness.
In one of the worst incidents, a man described as an unemployed, middle-aged doctor killed eight children with a knife in March 2010 to vent his anger over a thwarted romantic relationship."
Sounds exactly like our culture's current situation, except a lot more deaths and murders done with knives instead of guns.
Anonymous V replied with this 14 years ago, 5 hours later, 3 days after the original post[^][v]#375,308
@previous (N)
...Except China has four times as many people as the US, and it took multiple assaults for them to come close to the number of people killed by one person in the U.S. I don't see what there is to "like" about that. It just shows that the kind of weapon used actually matters, with guns being substantially more dangerous than knives.