Topic: And my girlfriend broke up with me.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 started this discussion 15 years ago #2,145
I should have known it was too good to last. She was just too flaky and couldn't handle a commitment. That or she was cheating on me and decided to leave me for the other guy. Either way I really don't give a shit anymore, but at the same time I'm kinda pissed off. I just feel really depressed. I hate being single. It's only been a day and I feel lonely as hell. Can anyone cheer me up?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #38,621
Awww I thought you were Green LOL.
Anywho. Oh man I'm sorry to hear that. :( You'll find a mermaid one day! No need to rush yourself into another relationship...
Anywho. Oh man I'm sorry to hear that. :( You'll find a mermaid one day! No need to rush yourself into another relationship...
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,623
alcohol
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,628
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 seconds later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,630
@38,621 (B)
I think I rushed this one. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years, it ended because I couldn't do the long distance thing anymore and also wasn't sure about a lot of other things, but jumped into another one because I hate being single. I didn't end the other one to be single. I just wanted a normal relationship. So I ended up jumping into a relationship with way too much emotional baggage and she just fucking flakes on me. Pisses me off. Things were going awesome, and then as soon as it starts to get serious she freaks the fuck out.
I think I rushed this one. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years, it ended because I couldn't do the long distance thing anymore and also wasn't sure about a lot of other things, but jumped into another one because I hate being single. I didn't end the other one to be single. I just wanted a normal relationship. So I ended up jumping into a relationship with way too much emotional baggage and she just fucking flakes on me. Pisses me off. Things were going awesome, and then as soon as it starts to get serious she freaks the fuck out.
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 43 seconds later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,632
Also go and pull an orange slag.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 13 seconds later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,633
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,636
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,637
Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,638
@38,630 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Yeah I see where you're getting at. She was young, no? Did she tell you she wasn't ready for srs business relationships?
Yeah I see where you're getting at. She was young, no? Did she tell you she wasn't ready for srs business relationships?
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 27 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,639
I don't even care if I jump into 10 more failed relationships. At least I can say I found 10 girls that didn't work out, and be that much closer to the right one. I just hate being single. I need companionship, and I need sex also. Lots of sex. Not to sound shallow, because companionship comes first, but yeah . . . lots of sex.
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,640
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 38 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,642
@38,638 (B)
Yep, this.
@38,637 (Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp.)
I still don't know what the fuck that means.
Yep, this.
@38,637 (Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp.)
I still don't know what the fuck that means.
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,643
The Editor !9aKxFuckno joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,646
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,647
@38,643 (Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp.)
That's not even on urban dictionary, and google turned up nothing like that. I should have guessed that, but seriously dude, if google doesn't know wtf you're talking about, something is wrong.
That's not even on urban dictionary, and google turned up nothing like that. I should have guessed that, but seriously dude, if google doesn't know wtf you're talking about, something is wrong.
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,659
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
An orange slag is someone who liberally applies fake tan to the extent that they become orange. They're almost always complete bydlo and will fuck everything. Pull is on UD, I checked.
An orange slag is someone who liberally applies fake tan to the extent that they become orange. They're almost always complete bydlo and will fuck everything. Pull is on UD, I checked.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,661
I don't really want meaningless sex, and I don't want to go out and break a lot of hearts. I just want a girl who likes to fuck but still wants a serious relationship, and in return they'll get a guy who loves to eat pussy and cuddle. There must be some girl out there who considers this ideal. Is this too much to ask? Also, I have no problem with clingy girls.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,669
Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp. replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,670
The Editor !9aKxFuckno replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,675
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,677
@38,670 (Ash Ketchup * !bbKEtchUp.)
"That . . . is a Snooki. It's famous!"
"That thing is famous? WHY?!"
"I DON'T KNOW!"
"That . . . is a Snooki. It's famous!"
"That thing is famous? WHY?!"
"I DON'T KNOW!"
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,681
lolâ„¢
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,699
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 48 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,711
Sorry if I sound cynical, but this thread hasn't helped much.
@38,661 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Anyone want to give me their opinion on this? Is it because I have the wrong outlook?
@38,661 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Anyone want to give me their opinion on this? Is it because I have the wrong outlook?
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) triple-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #38,714
K, well, I'm going to bed. If anyone wants to post relationship advice here for me to read later, please do.
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #38,739
jump !VIfloDyEYo joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 22 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #38,747
@38,630 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
She wasn't into you as much as you were into her. SuckS, but it happens. You will be alright.
Save the crying for us losers. You'll find someone in time.
She wasn't into you as much as you were into her. SuckS, but it happens. You will be alright.
Save the crying for us losers. You'll find someone in time.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 10 hours later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,460
@previous (jump !VIfloDyEYo)
Actually, that's not the issue. In fact, she texted me this morning, saying she was upset and wanted to apologize and give it another try. But now she just wants to be single because she hates relationships. I fucking knew she was gonna do this.
Even if I was on Skype last night to talk to her, I would have said no, because I know for a fact that she's really not ready for a relationship and we would just end up going in circles and I really can't stand this on-off bullshit. For now I think it's best if we both stay single, and if she wants to give it another try, we'll give it another try when she's ready for a real relationship.
She's already trying to get me to come over to her place and shit, and I'm not sure I wanna do that, because I don't want her to just use me for sex with no real relationship, and I don't want her to ask me out again only to break up with me again next week. I wish she wasn't so emotionally fucked up.
Actually, that's not the issue. In fact, she texted me this morning, saying she was upset and wanted to apologize and give it another try. But now she just wants to be single because she hates relationships. I fucking knew she was gonna do this.
Even if I was on Skype last night to talk to her, I would have said no, because I know for a fact that she's really not ready for a relationship and we would just end up going in circles and I really can't stand this on-off bullshit. For now I think it's best if we both stay single, and if she wants to give it another try, we'll give it another try when she's ready for a real relationship.
She's already trying to get me to come over to her place and shit, and I'm not sure I wanna do that, because I don't want her to just use me for sex with no real relationship, and I don't want her to ask me out again only to break up with me again next week. I wish she wasn't so emotionally fucked up.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,463
Leonidas !nBpim1wazU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 44 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,466
@39,460 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
> I don't want her to just use me for sex with no real relationship
I thought I was the only guy like that.
> I don't want her to just use me for sex with no real relationship
I thought I was the only guy like that.
Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,469
@39,460 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
You sound like you have a pretty good mindset on what you are looking for. Just let her know that you don't think the two of you are on the same page right now, and it would just be more painful to keep trying to "fix" things. If you enjoy her company and think the two of you can handle just being friends then more power too you, but don't beat yourself up if that just isn't possible.
You sound like you have a pretty good mindset on what you are looking for. Just let her know that you don't think the two of you are on the same page right now, and it would just be more painful to keep trying to "fix" things. If you enjoy her company and think the two of you can handle just being friends then more power too you, but don't beat yourself up if that just isn't possible.
Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,470
@39,460 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Sounds like she is pretty immature. Just write her off and find a better girl.
Sounds like she is pretty immature. Just write her off and find a better girl.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 45 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,490
@39,466 (Leonidas !nBpim1wazU)
Honestly, I'm not that bothered by the idea. I offered to be friends with benefits long before we started an actual relationship, but she refused to be fuck buddies because she said she wanted a relationship. Then she almost immediately changed her mind. Now she's acting like she wants to fuck buddies, but she had that chance and past it up. You can't go back to that. Now that we've started a relationship you can't just go back to just having sex without it causing emotional problems.
If she really wants me back, she needs to get her shit together and be prepared to commit, because I'm not playing these games.
Honestly, I'm not that bothered by the idea. I offered to be friends with benefits long before we started an actual relationship, but she refused to be fuck buddies because she said she wanted a relationship. Then she almost immediately changed her mind. Now she's acting like she wants to fuck buddies, but she had that chance and past it up. You can't go back to that. Now that we've started a relationship you can't just go back to just having sex without it causing emotional problems.
If she really wants me back, she needs to get her shit together and be prepared to commit, because I'm not playing these games.
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 29 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,498
inb4 Mindwurms finds this thread and takes a big dump of derp on it.
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Good on you, Broseph. Sorry for your loss. I think you should remove that girl from your life altogether until she's ready to act mature. She can take her cheating and her drama elsewhere, since you're above that kind of nonsense.
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Good on you, Broseph. Sorry for your loss. I think you should remove that girl from your life altogether until she's ready to act mature. She can take her cheating and her drama elsewhere, since you're above that kind of nonsense.
Depressionmanâ„¢ !!fNJHcIUn0 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,500
My condolences, friend.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,627
@39,498 (N)
I don't want to force her out of my life. We can still be friends, I just want her to get over whatever it is she's trying to get over before having a relationship, and if not then it's never going any further.
I don't want to force her out of my life. We can still be friends, I just want her to get over whatever it is she's trying to get over before having a relationship, and if not then it's never going any further.
psychopath !PAHVpsycho joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,632
Women can't handle commitment.
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,642
@39,627 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
As long as you think she's mature enough for it, and you can handle that kind of relationship (or lack thereof) in your life, then do what feels right, man. I would be careful though, because it could mean giving her a second chance at playing tiddlywinks with your heart.
As long as you think she's mature enough for it, and you can handle that kind of relationship (or lack thereof) in your life, then do what feels right, man. I would be careful though, because it could mean giving her a second chance at playing tiddlywinks with your heart.
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Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 58 seconds later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,643
Just remember: you'll always have your hand.
Anonymous R joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,661
@39,466 (Leonidas !nBpim1wazU)
I think many guys are like that. You're just a self-absorbed aspie moron
I think many guys are like that. You're just a self-absorbed aspie moron
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Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,673
Anonymous S joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 31 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,726
@OP
Stop being so butthurt. Stop moping around and go find a new girl.
Stop being so butthurt. Stop moping around and go find a new girl.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 21 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,773
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 30 seconds later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,776
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 36 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,847
And she just texted me saying "I like you even more today and I don't know why."
What the fuck is this I don't even . . .
What the fuck is this I don't even . . .
AC !tyLmN8C16E joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,859
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,867
Jack Squire !gOStA1p7Pc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 31 seconds later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,868
At least you had a fucking girlfriend.
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,881
Anonymous V joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,922
u mad
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,924
@39,847 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Have sex with her, then break up with her for putting you through this drama. She's just going to do it again...
Have sex with her, then break up with her for putting you through this drama. She's just going to do it again...
Jack Squire !gOStA1p7Pc replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,926
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,940
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,942
@previous (Ryan !PArADOx9ZU)
I would think the opposite, considering she was a hippy...
Did she have hairy armpits?
I would think the opposite, considering she was a hippy...
Did she have hairy armpits?
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,943
If I were a girl, I would love to be a hippy! However, I would shave, trim, or at the very least attempt to groom my pussy.
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,945
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 50 seconds later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,946
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,952
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,955
@previous (Q)
Would you ever grow dreadlocks? Are you a male or female? What is your ethnicity? What would you rate yourself on a Hippy Scale of 1 to Pattie Boyd?
Would you ever grow dreadlocks? Are you a male or female? What is your ethnicity? What would you rate yourself on a Hippy Scale of 1 to Pattie Boyd?
Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,957
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #39,963
@39,859 (AC !tyLmN8C16E)
@39,867 (N)
I've already tried that. Doesn't solve the problem.
@39,868 (Jack Squire !gOStA1p7Pc)
U mad bra?
@39,924 (Q)
I'd never do something like that. I'm not going to tolerate anymore drama though.
@39,867 (N)
I've already tried that. Doesn't solve the problem.
@39,868 (Jack Squire !gOStA1p7Pc)
U mad bra?
@39,924 (Q)
I'd never do something like that. I'm not going to tolerate anymore drama though.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #40,274
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #40,283
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Please don't feed the troll. It will only stir up drama. Trust me.
On topic: I'm sorry, Broseph. Girls are confusing bitches sometimes, which is more likely than not a result of commitment issues. Many want the benefits of your love, sex, and affection (or any combination of the three), but do not want to feel shackled by the constraints a relationship puts on them.
Please don't feed the troll. It will only stir up drama. Trust me.
On topic: I'm sorry, Broseph. Girls are confusing bitches sometimes, which is more likely than not a result of commitment issues. Many want the benefits of your love, sex, and affection (or any combination of the three), but do not want to feel shackled by the constraints a relationship puts on them.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #40,286
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #40,287
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
There was already drama on the board about alleged disparaging comments that were made on Minichan. He used that post to imply that she was clingy, or something similar. It was not positive.
There was already drama on the board about alleged disparaging comments that were made on Minichan. He used that post to imply that she was clingy, or something similar. It was not positive.
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #40,290
Anonymous H replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,435
@40,287 (Ryan !PArADOx9ZU)
No, she is a girl that likes to fuck but still wants a serious relationship.
So they have to be out there somewhere for you, but they are rare since most girls are stuck on themselves, or only want one or the other.
No, she is a girl that likes to fuck but still wants a serious relationship.
So they have to be out there somewhere for you, but they are rare since most girls are stuck on themselves, or only want one or the other.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,439
I want to give you a big manhug dude, I feel so sorry for ya. :<
jump !VIfloDyEYo joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,443
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,743
@40,435 (H)
At first I thought she was perfect because she seemed like that. Like I said earlier, I offered to be fuck buddies, but she said that she wanted a relationship more than anything. Then she flipped on me.
Now, she's already flipping back. Texting me a lot, wants me to come over to her place tonight, and asked me what I'm wearing. On the one hand, I don't want her to use me and play with my emotions. On the other hand, I don't want to force her out of my life, ignore her, and be a dick. I want the relationship, I just don't want her jumping back into the relationship and breaking up with me again 2 weeks from now.
At first I thought she was perfect because she seemed like that. Like I said earlier, I offered to be fuck buddies, but she said that she wanted a relationship more than anything. Then she flipped on me.
Now, she's already flipping back. Texting me a lot, wants me to come over to her place tonight, and asked me what I'm wearing. On the one hand, I don't want her to use me and play with my emotions. On the other hand, I don't want to force her out of my life, ignore her, and be a dick. I want the relationship, I just don't want her jumping back into the relationship and breaking up with me again 2 weeks from now.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,744
@40,435 (H)
Isn't she with Gil? She has a serious relationship, so what's the issue? Not trying to beat a dead horse or cause drama, but I'm willing to civilly talk about it.
Isn't she with Gil? She has a serious relationship, so what's the issue? Not trying to beat a dead horse or cause drama, but I'm willing to civilly talk about it.
Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,745
@40,743 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
You are still having problems with this? Damn man.
Just give it up. I PROMISE YOU it is the right decision. This chick isn't mature enough to handle a serious relationship, stop letting her fuck with your head.
You are still having problems with this? Damn man.
Just give it up. I PROMISE YOU it is the right decision. This chick isn't mature enough to handle a serious relationship, stop letting her fuck with your head.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,751
@previous (Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k)
I don't give up that easily. In my mind, the best thing to do is still be friends, but don't let her mess with my head. I'm not the type to give a knee-jerk reaction. I can tolerate this for a week or two before it actually gets to me and I give up. It hasn't even been 3 days yet.
I don't give up that easily. In my mind, the best thing to do is still be friends, but don't let her mess with my head. I'm not the type to give a knee-jerk reaction. I can tolerate this for a week or two before it actually gets to me and I give up. It hasn't even been 3 days yet.
Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,754
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Sorry, I didn't mean "CUT ALL TIES WITH HER NOW NOW NOW!" haha. Yeah man, just be friends. Stop worrying about a relationship, it sounds like it wouldn't be what you are looking for anyways, so don't sweat it.
Sorry, I didn't mean "CUT ALL TIES WITH HER NOW NOW NOW!" haha. Yeah man, just be friends. Stop worrying about a relationship, it sounds like it wouldn't be what you are looking for anyways, so don't sweat it.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,757
@previous (Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k)
Got it. I agree completely. Do you think we should be fuck buddies? Should I cut all sexual relations to keep it from messing with my head and put pressure on her to come to me if she really wants it, or should I relax and go ahead and do the nasty without worrying about it so much? As long as I don't get emotionally attached it shouldn't be a problem, but I'm wondering what it would do to her. Would it speed up the process or just make her content, and do I even want to speed up the process? I don't know.
Got it. I agree completely. Do you think we should be fuck buddies? Should I cut all sexual relations to keep it from messing with my head and put pressure on her to come to me if she really wants it, or should I relax and go ahead and do the nasty without worrying about it so much? As long as I don't get emotionally attached it shouldn't be a problem, but I'm wondering what it would do to her. Would it speed up the process or just make her content, and do I even want to speed up the process? I don't know.
Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,760
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
The only problem with being FBs is that while YOU may not get emotionally attached, I will be you 100 bitcoins SHE will. She is already all on-again-off-again with her feelings for you, I wouldn't tempt that shit, it'll bring her batshit-crazy side out.
The only problem with being FBs is that while YOU may not get emotionally attached, I will be you 100 bitcoins SHE will. She is already all on-again-off-again with her feelings for you, I wouldn't tempt that shit, it'll bring her batshit-crazy side out.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,763
@previous (Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k)
I've already been there done that, and honestly, I wouldn't mind getting that side back. It's better than the side that never wants me around.
I've already been there done that, and honestly, I wouldn't mind getting that side back. It's better than the side that never wants me around.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,767
I'd suggest you don't have sex with her for the next few months--it'll just cause trouble.
Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 30 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,778
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 45 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,797
@previous (Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng)
Yeah, I think you're right. Even if she acts like she wants me, she obviously just needs time.
Yeah, I think you're right. Even if she acts like she wants me, she obviously just needs time.
Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #40,807
Anonymous Z-3 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,056
Fuck her mother as revenge.
Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,057
Anonymous Z-3 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,059
Mindwurms !!4IKKtS9GG joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 54 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,060
You should focus on further developing yourself physically and mentally so that you can become someone you truly love. That way, even if you are alone you it will be tolerable, and women will wonder what's "going on" with you that makes your single life so great.
Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,061
Anonymous Z-3 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,068
Harleen Quinzel !jEsTERxAng replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,070
Anonymous Z-3 replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,075
Anonymous Z-5 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #41,094
Personally, if it were me...I would "CUT OFF ALL TIES NOW"...I've had women like this that didn't know what the hell they wanted...and changed their mind and stance on things every two days...so I would always press the ignore button irl on them completely...because (1) they need punishment for hurting me, and (2) I couldn't allow myself to be jerked around like that in giving into her wishy-washy desires.
It was showing her that she could get away with whatever she wanted with me/people without consequences, and it was also telling her that her immature behavior was an acceptable thing. She was being the dominate one here.
However, by reading this this thread...it appears that you still want a friendship with her. So, I would suggest still being friends with her if you absolutely have to...but only keep it to a text/phone/online thing. Don't see her in person.
Hang out with other people in person until her priorities don't seem that important anymore (this will help you move on, and not be tempted to go back with her and fuck her).
Also, BUY A FLESH LIGHT! I am completely serious. Whatever money you would have spent on your girl in a relationship (buying her dinner or stuffed animals), put that towards a flesh light. While it still may not be as good as real sex, it will be something new and exciting that you could sexually focus on and experiment with while time heals.
It was showing her that she could get away with whatever she wanted with me/people without consequences, and it was also telling her that her immature behavior was an acceptable thing. She was being the dominate one here.
However, by reading this this thread...it appears that you still want a friendship with her. So, I would suggest still being friends with her if you absolutely have to...but only keep it to a text/phone/online thing. Don't see her in person.
Hang out with other people in person until her priorities don't seem that important anymore (this will help you move on, and not be tempted to go back with her and fuck her).
Also, BUY A FLESH LIGHT! I am completely serious. Whatever money you would have spent on your girl in a relationship (buying her dinner or stuffed animals), put that towards a flesh light. While it still may not be as good as real sex, it will be something new and exciting that you could sexually focus on and experiment with while time heals.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #41,365
@previous (Z-5)
I already have a fleshlight knock-off.
Anyway, more drama. To make a long story short, she texted me asking how I would feel about having a threesome with one of her ex-boyfriends. When she didn't like my knee-jerk reaction, she tried to play it off like a joke and that Matt (the other guy) was just an example. This is the second time she has posed such a question then play it off like it's nothing. I should have said yes just to see what she would say, and then I would have had her trapped.
Anyway, you guys are all absolutely right. I'm done with this bullshit. I'm not even sure if I can be friends with her anymore, and if I can, it's only going to be through texts and online. I am DONE. This bitch is emotionally retarded and obviously doesn't know what she wants.
I already have a fleshlight knock-off.
Anyway, more drama. To make a long story short, she texted me asking how I would feel about having a threesome with one of her ex-boyfriends. When she didn't like my knee-jerk reaction, she tried to play it off like a joke and that Matt (the other guy) was just an example. This is the second time she has posed such a question then play it off like it's nothing. I should have said yes just to see what she would say, and then I would have had her trapped.
Anyway, you guys are all absolutely right. I'm done with this bullshit. I'm not even sure if I can be friends with her anymore, and if I can, it's only going to be through texts and online. I am DONE. This bitch is emotionally retarded and obviously doesn't know what she wants.
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Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #41,429
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
FUCK! You should have pulled a stickybuns and waited to reply to her until you got our advice! I would have told you to accept the threesome, demand to take the rear, and hate-fuck her asshole so hard that she'd never be able to shit right again. After it was over, cut ties and be happy you had your revenge.
SIGH...I guess what you did is fine too though...
FUCK! You should have pulled a stickybuns and waited to reply to her until you got our advice! I would have told you to accept the threesome, demand to take the rear, and hate-fuck her asshole so hard that she'd never be able to shit right again. After it was over, cut ties and be happy you had your revenge.
SIGH...I guess what you did is fine too though...
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 33 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #41,449
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 days later, 5 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,363
OK guys, here's an update. I was retarded and have been trying to cut her some slack, and got burned. Now I'm posting all the texts between us so you can she all the emotionally retarded drama unfold for yourself:
Her: Give me a good 2-4 word quote.
Me: Party hard.
Her: No. inspirational.
Me: Some people find that inspirational. 2-4 words is hard to work with.
Me: I'll get back to you though.
Me: The world needs love?
Me: How about "Never back down."
Her: Hmm
Me: Don't stop
Me: Believin'
Me: :D
Her: I like that one.
Me: Damn it, now I have journey stuck in my head.
Her: Lol
(hours later, when we're sitting on the couch, we'll sometimes text each other instead of talk)
Me: Wanna cuddle?
(incredulous look)
Me: Is that a no?
Her: Why do you?
Me: Why not?
Her: Why?
Me: I thought you wanted things to go back to how they were. I'm just trying to show some affection.
Me: Still thinking?
(later)
Me: I wish you'd text me back, or maybe talk to me.
(I later leave, she hugs me but pushes me away, says I look sick. Asks me what's wrong. I say I feel sick. I go.)
Me: Please text me.
Her: What's up?
Me: C'mon ****, is it really not obvious? You still won't answer me. I looked like I was going to throw up because you're tormenting me to the point that it's making me physically ill. I know you don't mean to, but come on. And I know you can just say "Well I broke up with you get over it" but that's not what you tell me when we talk about it. Can't you see what you're doing to me?
Me: And I can tell **** LOVES the fact that we're not dating. At least he's happy.
Her: Why can you tell that? And I'm not doing anything to you! What did I do?
Me: Am I just like all the other exes who won't stop texting you, begging for attention, or is it really different with me? Because I refuse to be like them. I just want to cry and get over this. If that's fine by you, just say so, if not, make up your mind but I just can't do this anymore. It's emotional torture.
Me: Why are you so surprised? Even your mom can tell what you're doing, but you're shocked that I'm upset.
Her: What did I do!?
Me: You broke my heart
Me: How's that for your 4 word quote of the day?
Her: What the fuck am I doing?
Her: How? How did I break your heart?
> implying she didn't break up with me. derp.
Her: ****, I'm gonna punch you in the fucking face. What the shit did I even do to you?
Me: You broke up with me. After months of all that shit and saying you love me, you flake on me, then you say that you still like me but we moved too fast, then you say you're not sure, then you say I should just get over it, then you text me that you're horny, that you want cuddles, you want a hug, etc. then I come over and feel like you're repulsed by me. You don't even want to cuddle. It's called unrequited love. Your actions speak louder than your words. I feel like you're just teasing me and leading me on, because you want me to be there when you need me, but you can never be there when I need you.
Her: Fuck you. I'm not repulsed by you. I'm trying not to rely on you so you don't get upset and say I'm leading you on. Well that worked well.
Me: Well if you don't want to lead me on, then why did you say those things? I'm fine with you leading me on as long as you mean it. You told me you wanted things to go back to how they were, then you refuse to show any affection because you don't want me to get the wrong idea. If you don't want me to get the wrong idea, then what's the right idea? You won't even tell me what you want. I don't think you even know what you want.
Me: How can I get the wrong idea about what you want when you don't even know what you want?
Me: You're afraid of hurting me, I get that, but the damage is done.
Me: Why do I have to spell it out for you? What about this do you expect me to be happy about.
Her: I'll discuss this later. I have gotta go to bed.
(20 minutes later)
Her: I just don't understand what I did tonight to you...
Me: It wasn't just tonight. It was this whole past week. You did nothing tonight. That's the problem. If you want things to go back to how they were, then show the affection you once showed for me and don't worry about leading me on. If you don't want things to go back to how they were, and you really don't think we're meant to be together, just say so, so I can get over you. But make up your mind so I can get off this heartbreaking emotional rollercoaster.
Her: Give me a good 2-4 word quote.
Me: Party hard.
Her: No. inspirational.
Me: Some people find that inspirational. 2-4 words is hard to work with.
Me: I'll get back to you though.
Me: The world needs love?
Me: How about "Never back down."
Her: Hmm
Me: Don't stop
Me: Believin'
Me: :D
Her: I like that one.
Me: Damn it, now I have journey stuck in my head.
Her: Lol
(hours later, when we're sitting on the couch, we'll sometimes text each other instead of talk)
Me: Wanna cuddle?
(incredulous look)
Me: Is that a no?
Her: Why do you?
Me: Why not?
Her: Why?
Me: I thought you wanted things to go back to how they were. I'm just trying to show some affection.
Me: Still thinking?
(later)
Me: I wish you'd text me back, or maybe talk to me.
(I later leave, she hugs me but pushes me away, says I look sick. Asks me what's wrong. I say I feel sick. I go.)
Me: Please text me.
Her: What's up?
Me: C'mon ****, is it really not obvious? You still won't answer me. I looked like I was going to throw up because you're tormenting me to the point that it's making me physically ill. I know you don't mean to, but come on. And I know you can just say "Well I broke up with you get over it" but that's not what you tell me when we talk about it. Can't you see what you're doing to me?
Me: And I can tell **** LOVES the fact that we're not dating. At least he's happy.
Her: Why can you tell that? And I'm not doing anything to you! What did I do?
Me: Am I just like all the other exes who won't stop texting you, begging for attention, or is it really different with me? Because I refuse to be like them. I just want to cry and get over this. If that's fine by you, just say so, if not, make up your mind but I just can't do this anymore. It's emotional torture.
Me: Why are you so surprised? Even your mom can tell what you're doing, but you're shocked that I'm upset.
Her: What did I do!?
Me: You broke my heart
Me: How's that for your 4 word quote of the day?
Her: What the fuck am I doing?
Her: How? How did I break your heart?
> implying she didn't break up with me. derp.
Her: ****, I'm gonna punch you in the fucking face. What the shit did I even do to you?
Me: You broke up with me. After months of all that shit and saying you love me, you flake on me, then you say that you still like me but we moved too fast, then you say you're not sure, then you say I should just get over it, then you text me that you're horny, that you want cuddles, you want a hug, etc. then I come over and feel like you're repulsed by me. You don't even want to cuddle. It's called unrequited love. Your actions speak louder than your words. I feel like you're just teasing me and leading me on, because you want me to be there when you need me, but you can never be there when I need you.
Her: Fuck you. I'm not repulsed by you. I'm trying not to rely on you so you don't get upset and say I'm leading you on. Well that worked well.
Me: Well if you don't want to lead me on, then why did you say those things? I'm fine with you leading me on as long as you mean it. You told me you wanted things to go back to how they were, then you refuse to show any affection because you don't want me to get the wrong idea. If you don't want me to get the wrong idea, then what's the right idea? You won't even tell me what you want. I don't think you even know what you want.
Me: How can I get the wrong idea about what you want when you don't even know what you want?
Me: You're afraid of hurting me, I get that, but the damage is done.
Me: Why do I have to spell it out for you? What about this do you expect me to be happy about.
Her: I'll discuss this later. I have gotta go to bed.
(20 minutes later)
Her: I just don't understand what I did tonight to you...
Me: It wasn't just tonight. It was this whole past week. You did nothing tonight. That's the problem. If you want things to go back to how they were, then show the affection you once showed for me and don't worry about leading me on. If you don't want things to go back to how they were, and you really don't think we're meant to be together, just say so, so I can get over you. But make up your mind so I can get off this heartbreaking emotional rollercoaster.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 5 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,364
Yep, so I've had enough derp for one night. Can someone well-versed in psychology please explain to me what is going on in her emotionally crippled head?
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,369
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
She's dumb. Forget about her and move on. Problem solved.
She's dumb. Forget about her and move on. Problem solved.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,374
Leonidas !nBpim1wazU replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 6 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,476
@41,365 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
She sounds like a skank here. She also wants to have you cuckold.
@45,363 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
She sounds like a bimbo here.
@41,094 (Z-5)
Na, the girl's a slut and an asshole. She just wants some redneck guy to slap her around all the time, get her pregnant and run off to avoid child support and then she'll be happy.
Broseph, oh well at least you got some pussy. Now go get tested for AIDS because I think she had some.
She sounds like a skank here. She also wants to have you cuckold.
@45,363 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
She sounds like a bimbo here.
@41,094 (Z-5)
Na, the girl's a slut and an asshole. She just wants some redneck guy to slap her around all the time, get her pregnant and run off to avoid child support and then she'll be happy.
Broseph, oh well at least you got some pussy. Now go get tested for AIDS because I think she had some.
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cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 6 days after the original post[^] [v] #45,499
@45,363 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Damn, have some self-respect man. The begging is painful to read & not going to get you anywhere.
And I hate to say, but she's exactly the kind of girl you thought she was. Why drag it out? Her response is predictable & no amount of beta-male pleading or guilt-tripping is going to change that.
You don't need her permission to move on.
Damn, have some self-respect man. The begging is painful to read & not going to get you anywhere.
And I hate to say, but she's exactly the kind of girl you thought she was. Why drag it out? Her response is predictable & no amount of beta-male pleading or guilt-tripping is going to change that.
You don't need her permission to move on.