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Topic: My friend is involved with a pedophile?

kayla started this discussion 14 years ago #21,039

Hey Guys,
I'm really worried about a friend of mine. She's 14 years old and meeting up with a man around 40ish that she met online. She's sexually active with him, and they met up just today for the second time. There is no abuse involved at all, which is good. As soon as she mentions any form of abuse I'm going to call the cops.

Earlier today she needed an excuse to get out of the house for the night to meet up with him. So she asked me to meet up with her at a shopping center, where her mum will drop her off and see me (This will reassure her mum shes with me) and from there the guy will come and pick her up and i'll go home.

I was thinking of the possible situations, and thought i'd go just to write down the number plate of the car. So that way if she is abused i have the number plate. Where as if I didn't help her meet up with him she would have snuck out later on anyway and I wouldn't have a number plate at all.

Problem was she wanted me to go home before he came, and so while i was spying on her trying to find the guy i lost track of her. Ughh. I feel like crap, think I made things worse.
At least on the positive side I've now created evidence of her meeting up with him as there are security cameras at the shopping center, and I've listed down the date, time etc. So I didn't completely stuff things up.

Anyway I was just wondering what I should do? Should I tell someone or just wait and see if things get abusive? The thing is if I tell someone the police will do a complete search of all her conversations, the guy will go to jail, shell be kicked out of home, she wont come to school ever again, shell probably break down and end up in a home. I'll never be able to look at her again, and the police would want to read our entire conversation history right? This means my parents would find out i lied, got involved, they'd here about some of the other private stuff i got up to.

What do I do?! :/

Also can some of you please tell me if I did the right thing by meeting up with her at the shopping center? Was that a good or bad decision?

Thanks

Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j. joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later[^] [v] #337,275

Pray to the Australian Gods.

squeegee joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,326

> number plate

Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j. replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,327

@previous (squeegee)

u wot m8?

squeegee replied with this 14 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,329

@previous (Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j.)
OP uses funny slang

Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j. replied with this 14 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,331

@previous (squeegee)
It's called number plate in the UK.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,355

You're a cock blocker kayla!

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 35 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,375

> 14 year old being sexual with a 40 year old no signs of abuse
> coercive relationship structure
> no signs of abuse
> coercion

inb4 statist decadence

squeegee !firstkPE1Q joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,397

@337,331 (Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j.)
huh? that weird. look, the french try to rename things too, but it's just silly for them to have called CDs, "le disques compacques digitale."
Ford invented cars, and his cars had license plates.
and then everyone in europe was like, "oh, look, we have cars now, let's call them Motorwagons and we'll give them number plates!"
it's just silly to me.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,400

@previous (squeegee !firstkPE1Q)
Ford did not invent the automobile. (Gas powered) More like future Nazi's did that. Ford did invent a practical way to manufacture them in mass quantities.

squeegee !firstkPE1Q replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,401

@previous (G)
well, no, you're almost right, there were tractors and things before that though.

Anonymous G replied with this 14 years ago, 7 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,403

@previous (squeegee !firstkPE1Q)
Whole lot of people find no need for gas or steam or electricity

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 32 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #337,412

lol i'm really glad this is copy pasta

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 day later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #337,726

Hey Kayla,

I hope your friend is okay :)

Give us an update if you're still around.

The Truth !XRJSgJUbuM joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #337,728

Who gives a shit, this generation's 14 year olds are nothing like past 14 year olds, if she has tits and grass in the field and knows what's up she can fuck whoever she wants.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 1 month later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,218

bump

Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 3 hours later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,275

@337,375 (E)
> doesn't understand the definition of coercion
> typical redditor

Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 day later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,484

Pedophilia is attraction to children under 12 years of age. Your friend's boyfriend is actually a hebephile.

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,499

@previous (L)
Walter.

Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 57 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,500

@337,375 (E)
@346,275 (K)
Please quit misusing meme arrows. Im going to report you
its a permaban btw

(Edited 23 seconds later.)

dw !jdTkvovFCQ joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,505

@previous (N)
What is a meme arrow

Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 19 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,507

Don't be a pussy. Fuck her yourself to show her how much more capable you are than that pervert. Once you accomplish what you should be capable of (otherwise you are a sad individual), she should no longer hangout with him. Stop white knighting this dumb bitch. Stick your cock down her throat you fuckin wimp.

dw !jdTkvovFCQ replied with this 14 years ago, 21 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,512

@337,275 (Alcoholic Green !OAFoAfh8j.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7M1k1tgq87g

Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 59 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,518

@346,275 (K)
> Australian pedo libertarian

Anonymous N replied with this 14 years ago, 4 hours later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,546

@346,505 (dw !jdTkvovFCQ)
It's what 4chan uses to make memes
> mfw
> tfw
> implying
That kind of thing.

(Edited 5 minutes later.)

dw !jdTkvovFCQ replied with this 14 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,548

@previous (N)
lol

Anonymous Q replied with this 14 years ago, 12 hours later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #346,687

@346,546 (N)
Bullshit
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