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Topic: Found out this morning that my girl plans on leaving me in a couple of months
Anonymous A started this discussion 14 years ago#17,283
Okay. I fucked up a couple of times and cheated. The guilt got to me and eventually told her everything. She hated me for a while and then told me she was ready to move past it. That's been about 4 months now. Today I got a message on FB from a mutual friend of ours and he showed me a message she sent. It basically said that I've done so much stupid shit that she'll never trust me again and she can't live with being my PO for the rest of her life.
She's getting a lawsuit settlement in a couple of months and I think she's going to buy the house we're in and tell me to hit the bricks.
We've been together for 7 years now and I don't know what to do. The friend told me this in trust that I wouldn't bring it up but how can I not?
Do I confront her, suck it up and move out, or wait for the hammer to come down?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 26 minutes later[^][v]#292,294
You cheated, get fucked.
henn joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 28 minutes later, 54 minutes after the original post[^][v]#292,299
> move out > lawyer up > delete facebook > delete google+ > hit the gym > join credit union > wait for it to all pass over
green !6PPj7P5Iag joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 4 minutes later, 59 minutes after the original post[^][v]#292,300
You cheated. You fucked up. You deal with the consequences.
vocalon !:3faggot joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#292,302
Lawyer up, hit the gym, buy a dog.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#292,303
I'd find an apartment, get it furnished, move my stuff bit by bit over so she doesn't notice and when the hammer falls be like "OH GOD THIS SO SURPRISED ME" and just switch places and move on not wasting time + avoid the packing under the silent treatment.
And if your mutual friend lied... well, you have an apartment she doesn't know about, throw parties and chill there when she pisses you off :D
Also, if she means so much to you, why would you cheat... you screwed up, move on.
squeegee !firstkPE1Q joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#292,324
HEY: OP
lawyer up first, say nothing to your wife about what you know.
your wife has already been advised to say nothing to you until you get served papers.
This is the only advise you should follow.
Lawyer up.
Do it monday.
squeegee !firstkPE1Q double-posted this 14 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#292,325
Oh wait, i read that as you wife has been seeing an attorney about getting a divorce. but no, she's getting money.
okay, don't worry about a lawyer quite yet. wait, are you even married. fuck
sorry, sorry
i'm high
ok, so, have you thought about couples counseling?
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 14 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#292,347