Topic: Was I raped?
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #1,618
So a few days ago me and my boyfriend were having our 1 year anniversary at a nice restaurant. Everything was going well, and I had a few drinks. I invited him over to my place and he came on to me, one thing led to another and eventually we did have sex.
The thing is now that I look back on it, I didn't really want to have sex, and I never said "Yes" to sex, it just happened. Not to mention I had three glasses of wine!
Should I talk to the police?
The thing is now that I look back on it, I didn't really want to have sex, and I never said "Yes" to sex, it just happened. Not to mention I had three glasses of wine!
Should I talk to the police?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #30,321
No, stop being a faggot.
Zimbolt !Q0UkqV0C6. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^] [v] #30,322
yes
Falco !MzQCNUfXbc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,324
Well you never said no or resisted...
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,326
@previous (Falco !MzQCNUfXbc)
I never said yes, either! If someone took your money under your nose, would it be okay since you didn't say they couldn't? What the fuck is wrong with you?
I never said yes, either! If someone took your money under your nose, would it be okay since you didn't say they couldn't? What the fuck is wrong with you?
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Depressionmanâ„¢ !!fNJHcIUn0 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,328
Did he see your butthole?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,329
Depressionmanâ„¢ !!fNJHcIUn0 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,331
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,335
Yes.
And you deserved it too, you dumb bitch.
And you deserved it too, you dumb bitch.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 19 seconds later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,336
@30,331 (Depressionmanâ„¢ !!fNJHcIUn0)
How does sex work on the lilypad?
You know what, I don't even want to know.
How does sex work on the lilypad?
You know what, I don't even want to know.
Falco !MzQCNUfXbc replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,339
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,341
I hope OP is trolling. I'll bite anyway, just in case, and to end this retarded thread quickly.
You do not have to actually say "yes" to consent. You allowed him to do it, through your own choices and actions. You did not resist, you didn't say no, you went along with it and let him do it. That, by legal definition, is consent. You don't need a verbal contract to consent to sex. Just because you regret your actions later, does not make it rape. Your regrets are on you, not him. The wine would only be an issue if you were so drunk that you were unaware of what was going on and lacked the ability to resist. Just because getting drunk causes you to make regrettable decisions does not make it rape.
You do not have to actually say "yes" to consent. You allowed him to do it, through your own choices and actions. You did not resist, you didn't say no, you went along with it and let him do it. That, by legal definition, is consent. You don't need a verbal contract to consent to sex. Just because you regret your actions later, does not make it rape. Your regrets are on you, not him. The wine would only be an issue if you were so drunk that you were unaware of what was going on and lacked the ability to resist. Just because getting drunk causes you to make regrettable decisions does not make it rape.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,343
No, you absolutely were not. He was probably drinking as well, so I hope you got his consist before having sex.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 31 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,355
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #30,359
@previous (I)
No, it really doesn't depend, on anything or either of the things you said. If she got drunk and lost her virginity when she didn't *really* want to, that's on her. She wasn't raped.
No, it really doesn't depend, on anything or either of the things you said. If she got drunk and lost her virginity when she didn't *really* want to, that's on her. She wasn't raped.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 26 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #30,363
@OP
Well it's obvious that this is the first time you two had sex. And you were intoxicated. Women get intoxicated with much less alcohol then men, especially because of less body weight. This makes it at the very least statutory rape. You need to file a police report.
He did rape you!
Well it's obvious that this is the first time you two had sex. And you were intoxicated. Women get intoxicated with much less alcohol then men, especially because of less body weight. This makes it at the very least statutory rape. You need to file a police report.
He did rape you!
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #30,364
@OP
You must answer the question of whether or not he saw your butthole while having sex. This is a crucial question.
You must answer the question of whether or not he saw your butthole while having sex. This is a crucial question.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #30,370
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #30,372
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 30 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #30,380
Are you planning to sleep with him again?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,398
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 24 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,401
> Was I raped?
No, OP has never gotten laid.
No, OP has never gotten laid.
Nexus !jNexusRe/. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,403
Gay rape sounds terrible.
Mindwurms !!4IKKtS9GG joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 28 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,408
In the spirit of the law, if you are able to see his face again without either running away, attacking him, calling the police, or being restrained, you have not been raped or even assaulted. In legalese, you were intoxicated and so you can go to the police and have him arrested if you are so inclined. It's your decision to make and people have made similar choices in either sense.
Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 59 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,418
jump !VIfloDyEYo joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,506
If you attend university, you were raped. Men at university must ask, in non-ambigious language, "MAY I PLEASE TOUCH YOU." "MAY I PUT MY PENIS INSIDE YOU" "MAY I PULL MY PENIS OUT SLIGHTLY AND BACK IN REPEATEDLY" if it slips out all the way he must as k for permission to penetrate and thrust again.
If you do not, then you are a whore. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE LET A MAN BE ALONE WITH YOU.
If you do not, then you are a whore. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE LET A MAN BE ALONE WITH YOU.
✄----- !ZSNgHQb5Ig joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 20 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,525
Do you feel like shaving your hair off and drawing dicks on your face with mascara?
Born this Way !dLadyGAgAA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 44 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,563
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #30,955
@OP
Have you had sex with him before that time, yes or no? If yes, then it's not rape.
Have you had sex with him before that time, yes or no? If yes, then it's not rape.
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Anonymous I double-posted this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,618
I think OP is troll. She's all "Was I raped?" then "I'm going to go have sex with him again in a few days."
Nexus !jNexusRe/. replied with this 15 years ago, 57 seconds later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,619
Why do people keep assuming OP has to be a girl?
Its obviously sodomy between two consenting men.
Its obviously sodomy between two consenting men.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,623
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,679
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,680
@31,623 (A)
But were YOU also a man? That was the question asked. You are avoiding questions not just from me.
But were YOU also a man? That was the question asked. You are avoiding questions not just from me.
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Anonymous M replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,681
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 15 years ago, 25 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #31,712
@OP
You need to answer to questions
1.) Are you a man?
2.) Did you see the butthole of your partner during intercourse?
I am eagerly awaiting a response.
You need to answer to questions
1.) Are you a man?
2.) Did you see the butthole of your partner during intercourse?
I am eagerly awaiting a response.
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 54 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #31,758
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
> Did you see the butthole of your partner during intercourse?
You're disgusting.
> Did you see the butthole of your partner during intercourse?
You're disgusting.