Topic: Last night I found out my best friend was raped by his brother.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 started this discussion 15 years ago #15,769
I'm still in shock about it, I did't know what to say.
It was one of my other friends who told me.
I'm considering going to the police, but that would ruin his family forever.
What the fuck am I going to do?
It was one of my other friends who told me.
I'm considering going to the police, but that would ruin his family forever.
What the fuck am I going to do?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later[^] [v] #274,763
You're friends with t04str's brother? What a small world it is.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #274,764
Did he get permanent eye damage from lasers in his eyes while he slept?
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #274,790
@274,763 (B)
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
lame
@OP
That's fucked up, but I kind of suggest not doing anything besides talking to your friend about it. It's his life, not yours.
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
lame
@OP
That's fucked up, but I kind of suggest not doing anything besides talking to your friend about it. It's his life, not yours.
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cccuuunnttt !CaTLdYmooc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #274,794
@previous (D)
Agree, but I'd feel differently if there were kids still living with the brother in harm's way. Police can't do much with "I heard that...," but child service agencies generally can and have to investigate, at least where I live.
Agree, but I'd feel differently if there were kids still living with the brother in harm's way. Police can't do much with "I heard that...," but child service agencies generally can and have to investigate, at least where I live.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #274,852
1.) look at the different agencies that could intervene
2.) do something about it, the brother deserves to rot in jail, and the parents should feel like shit for the rest of their lives
2.) do something about it, the brother deserves to rot in jail, and the parents should feel like shit for the rest of their lives
squeegee !hbZVTk6JYc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #274,927
Mind your own business. If he wanted you to know he would've told you.
He probably thinks you'll go telling everyone...
He probably thinks you'll go telling everyone...
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #274,932
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,021
@274,927 (squeegee !hbZVTk6JYc)
> Mind your own business. If he wanted you to know he would've told you.
>
> He probably thinks you'll go telling everyone...
> Mind your own business. If he wanted you to know he would've told you.
>
> He probably thinks you'll go telling everyone...
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 22 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,022
@274,790 (D)
I don't think I could, what do I say?
@274,794 (cccuuunnttt !CaTLdYmooc)
All the children are 18+ now, my friend who got raped is the youngest (21).
@274,852 (F)
That's how I feel I want him to go to the authorities but if he refuses should I go without his permission?
@274,927 (squeegee !hbZVTk6JYc)
He probably does think this but if he knew me at all he'd know I wouldn't do something so stupid.
I understand why he didn't tell me, but should he be allowed to suffer.
It's still very likely this could happen again.
I don't think I could, what do I say?
@274,794 (cccuuunnttt !CaTLdYmooc)
All the children are 18+ now, my friend who got raped is the youngest (21).
@274,852 (F)
That's how I feel I want him to go to the authorities but if he refuses should I go without his permission?
@274,927 (squeegee !hbZVTk6JYc)
He probably does think this but if he knew me at all he'd know I wouldn't do something so stupid.
I understand why he didn't tell me, but should he be allowed to suffer.
It's still very likely this could happen again.
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Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 40 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,027
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)> He probably thinks you'll go telling everyone...
> He probably does think this but if he knew me at all he'd know I wouldn't do something so stupid.
After you just told everyone on minichan.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,030
@previous (I)
Oh please you don't even know who I am let alone who I am talking about.
INB4 AC stlye invasion of privacy.
Oh please you don't even know who I am let alone who I am talking about.
INB4 AC stlye invasion of privacy.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,031
Anonymously taunt his brother online until the guilt eats at him.
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #275,044
@275,022 (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
Yes, even if it were the end of your friendship, you can't let someone who is clearly traumatized make that decision. I'm sure the weight of the world is on his shoulders trying to contemplate the consequences of telling someone. ;__; sorry dear, these sorts of things are rarely easy.
Yes, even if it were the end of your friendship, you can't let someone who is clearly traumatized make that decision. I'm sure the weight of the world is on his shoulders trying to contemplate the consequences of telling someone. ;__; sorry dear, these sorts of things are rarely easy.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,183
@previous (F)
I live in a small town if his brother was charged everyone would find out, he's had to leave town.
To make matters worse I work for his family...
I live in a small town if his brother was charged everyone would find out, he's had to leave town.
To make matters worse I work for his family...
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,185
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
Just butt the fuck out. Be a friend to your friend and leave the brother alone.
Just butt the fuck out. Be a friend to your friend and leave the brother alone.
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 7 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,328
@previous (K)
Lolol to4str, fuck off before I curb stomp the chav out of you.
@275,183 (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
Well that makes it even more complicated, but I doubt the law allows employees to be let go or reprimanded for reporting rape. The only way your mate is going to be able to move on is when those responsible can't control his life.
Lolol to4str, fuck off before I curb stomp the chav out of you.
@275,183 (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
Well that makes it even more complicated, but I doubt the law allows employees to be let go or reprimanded for reporting rape. The only way your mate is going to be able to move on is when those responsible can't control his life.
RaiRai !TrUHMeowzA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 23 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,332
@previous (F)
> Lolol to4str, fuck off before I curb
stomp the chav out of you.
I don't think that's the same to4str we know lol since when did he leave his brother alone?
> Lolol to4str, fuck off before I curb
stomp the chav out of you.
I don't think that's the same to4str we know lol since when did he leave his brother alone?
Anonymous K replied with this 15 years ago, 23 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,333
@275,328 (F)
not to4str, just don't wanna see you ruin someone's life unnecessarily, including your friend.
not to4str, just don't wanna see you ruin someone's life unnecessarily, including your friend.
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #275,336
Blackmail the brother for some good loot.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 15 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,491
@275,328 (F)
It's not the fact I would get fired it's the fact that if I did report him I couldn't face going to work it would be hellish, for both me and my employer.
It's not the fact I would get fired it's the fact that if I did report him I couldn't face going to work it would be hellish, for both me and my employer.
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,492
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
How is this even a question in your mind? You would lose your job, destroy a family and for what? Just don't fucking do it. Reporting him also doesn't guarantee he will be charged with a crime because his brother wouldn't necessarily want to make a statement. Think how humiliated your friend would be. It is not your place to report him, let karma do its thing.
How is this even a question in your mind? You would lose your job, destroy a family and for what? Just don't fucking do it. Reporting him also doesn't guarantee he will be charged with a crime because his brother wouldn't necessarily want to make a statement. Think how humiliated your friend would be. It is not your place to report him, let karma do its thing.
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Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,493
@previous (N)
I could possibly save my best friend from another rape attack or at least I'd get him away from his sick brother.
I could possibly save my best friend from another rape attack or at least I'd get him away from his sick brother.
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,494
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
How do you even know he was raped? Maybe he consented but is too embarrassed to admit it.
How do you even know he was raped? Maybe he consented but is too embarrassed to admit it.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,495
@previous (N)
I highly doubt he consented. He was emotionally and physically shaken telling my friend.
Besides, why would anyone willingly admit they had sex with a sibling?
I highly doubt he consented. He was emotionally and physically shaken telling my friend.
Besides, why would anyone willingly admit they had sex with a sibling?
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,496
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
Could you describe exactly what he did or was forced to do against his will maybe this would help me understand?
Could you describe exactly what he did or was forced to do against his will maybe this would help me understand?
Handel !khEOdtKF56 (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,498
@previous (N)
> Could you describe exactly
Sup to4str
He raped him, what's so fucking hard to understand about that?
> Could you describe exactly
Sup to4str
He raped him, what's so fucking hard to understand about that?
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,501
Anonymous O joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 13 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,505
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,508
I agree that actions like this have to be punished.
However, the likelihood of reporting this incident to blow up without harming the people who deserve it in the slightest.
However, the likelihood of reporting this incident to blow up without harming the people who deserve it in the slightest.
Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 38 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,515
There are soo many factors that determine if this was morally OK. Was it anal, oral or something else? Did he go in balls deep? If it was anal, did he use lube, how big is his penis, how tight is the boys ass? Did he cum inside the boy or on him? Did he give him a reach around, or even a BJ? Did the "victim" ejaculate? Did he at any time consent? Was he coerced? Is the boy very feminine, was he acting (or dressing) provocatively? There is only so much teasing any man can take. I wish you wouldn't be so ambiguous.
Anonymous H replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,517
Anonymous O replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #275,520
@275,515 (N)
Look, to4str, any kind of sex with a sibling is always sick. Technicalities won't work here.
Look, to4str, any kind of sex with a sibling is always sick. Technicalities won't work here.