Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 28 seconds later, 43 minutes after the original post[^][v]#256,808
@256,800 (A) > It feels too soon to me :-/
Just tell her that outright. She'll most likely understand, won't she? But be sure to tell her why. Speculation can be a nasty thing.
Ishikawa !Et8Dragonk replied with this 15 years ago, 56 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#256,829
@256,803 (A)
Yes I do love him. And yes we will be getting married sometime in the future. We have more important things to think about right now we love each other as if we were. We do plan on getting a handfasting soon.
Meowth !WcOabcjNAM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#256,946
@256,808 (H)
This. If she's serious about wanting to marry you, she'll understand. The way I see it is that if she doesn't understand, she's not even ready for her to marry you.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 43 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#256,964
Tell her marriage is for heterofags and you do not believe in it on ideological grounds. Problem solved.
floorboard !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#256,966
@previous (J)
Exactly, just remember: adam and eve, not adam and steve. Seriously, not getting married and lots of casual sex are the perks to being gay. Why be miserable like the rest of us?
Tell her that.
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#256,970
@previous (floorboard !nIGga.SL0w)
Or you might also say something like "our relationship is bigger than any government," "We don't need the government to approve of our love," or that "society's approval of our relationship is unnecessary and unrequired."
It's a bit more romantic than saying we should be free to sleep around since we're not straight. I'm just saying.
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#256,982
Do you love her? Would you be okay being with her and no one else for the rest of your life? Do you think you're ready to commit?
buspuppie !!hkv8K5ZEY joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 12 hours after the original post[^][v]#257,002