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Topic: In-person dating events

Anonymous A started this discussion 3 weeks ago #137,940

Women really think guys will go to shit like this? LMAO how out of touch can you be?

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 3 hours later[^] [v] #1,459,793

Like the old speed dating? I’m not winning in that format. What a waste of time. I chat up women I know or sleep with a couple of my ex wife’s friends. Trying to get rapport in a forced setting like that sucks and the women are a bad mix of high ego + low prospects.

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 11 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,795

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 56 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,797

Those aren't for the guys, it's to filter out cheapskates and lunatics, same with premium dating sites.

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 40 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,803

@previous (D)

> Those aren't for the guys, it's to filter out cheapskates and lunatics, same with premium dating sites.

Huh. Kind of like men having to say “enjoys travel” in profiles because 1) women are obsessed with it and 2) allegedly serves as shorthand for being cultured and having disposable income.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 15 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,807

I went on a blind date once. She really was blind.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 5 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,900

@previous (F)
For sure, not a deal breaker.

@1,459,803 (E)
Yep. Better deliver though, she'll want Paris or yacht rides.

Mr. Bloody Lemonade !0JqexkOGBc joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 52 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,910

Sounds like a very Chinese idea

Mr. Bloody Lemonade !0JqexkOGBc double-posted this 3 weeks ago, 3 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,911

Except older Chinese people are acting as human proxies so maybe it’s technically not in person.

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 9 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,984

@1,459,900 (G)

> For sure, not a deal breaker.
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> Yep. Better deliver though, she'll want Paris or yacht rides.

Another angle is dropping down a social class. That is, a 3-day getaway to the Caribbean is transformative for some younger women who never left the country. I went to a few places with a bartender I liked. She was chill, fun, and not money obsessed. She had reasons for not traveling before.

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 2 hours later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,459,989

@previous (I)
Ah, that tracks.

Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 13 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,460,127

Coffee date is best
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