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Anonymous A started this discussion 20 hours ago#136,364
Your wife or SO won’t actually kiss you.
There’s a million excuses and fakes health conditions.
You overheard her actively diminishing you and claiming you have ED to friends, when you don’t.
She recommends you go on SSRIs to match her diminished sex drive.
Let’s reverse this. If you did these things to a woman you’d be coercive, manipulative, and a liar forcing them to live to your preferences.
You could get a divorce and lose half your shit to an unworthy and bad partner who didn’t earn that money or those assets. Or you could accommodate and not waste money on therapy or “learn to adapt” to suit her nonsensical and emasculating approach.
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 19 hours ago, 33 minutes later[^][v]#1,447,415
Wouldn't be the first person on the planet with a useless wife or husband. Line up everything else in case you need a new life (another bank account or private post box possibly). Handle business but also take care of yourself. Cheating seems like too much work honestly, be ready to pull the ripcord and bail this year or next instead.
It'd be different if she was just going through that stage where women shut down the sex to missionary (or none at all), but it sounds like she's actively being shitty about it and there's more going on.
> Wouldn't be the first person on the planet with a useless wife or husband. Line up everything else in case you need a new life (another bank account or private post box possibly). Handle business but also take care of yourself. Cheating seems like too much work honestly, be ready to pull the ripcord and bail this year or next instead. > > It'd be different if she was just going through that stage where women shut down the sex to missionary (or none at all), but it sounds like she's actively being shitty about it and there's more going on.
Thank you! I have absolutely no one to talk to about this. Intertwined social circles and the like. I am actively setting aside money and assets in case the worst happens. I’m glad she disparaged me for make believe in public and I called her on it. Suddenly I found my voice and my balls - publicly emasculating a guy is the wrong thing to do.
I think of that story of the elephant. The calf is held in chains so by the time it’s an adult it doesn’t even pull on a rope that holds its foot.
> > It'd be different if she was just going through that stage where women shut down the sex to missionary (or none at all), but it sounds like she's actively being shitty about it and there's more going on.
Missionary or none at all. Another reason not to marry or remarry. New relationships have the best sex because if you read Psychology Today, it’s when women are most sexual and organic. Biological processes to reel men in.
> That sounds exactly like something a red piller would say.
Probably but the difference is this doesn’t come from a place of misogyny. It’s biochemistry. Study after study shows women are most interested in sex early in relationships and that cools after 1-2 years. So the key is to try to have recurring honeymoon phases in different relationships if sex is your guide. I have gotten more out of some relationships, but depending on age/availability you’re just as apt to face a survey of your finances and assets, all of her expectations, and listen to the goings on of everyone she knows. There’s often no thought on her part of what she offers to the relationship. And you have have to carry water for every “bad guy” in her past. Feel free to proceed cluelessly.