boof joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,442,951
you need to shop for a pillow and test the various types out. they sell them with varying amounts of firmness and some pillows are more fuckable than others.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 10 hours later, 21 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,443,234
OP
You may need to go to several mattress stores. Find one with a sales lady that is ATTRACTIVE.
Ask her for a suggestion. Be open and honest with her.