Anonymous A started this discussion 1 month ago#135,488
I settled for a fat woman. She treats me really well, cooks me a ton of delicious. food, always wants to have sex, communicates really well, but she's terribly fat in all the wrong places.
My friends mock me behind my back and don't understand I can't pull a beautiful woman. The stares I get as we walk down the aisle in the supermarket are some of the worst haunting stares I've ever seen in my life as single women wonder why her and not them and I feel so ashamed going out it makes me want to kill myself.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 1 month ago, 4 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,439,853
To be fair, it's not so much staring as it is not sure where we're all supposed to look when we walk by. When someone takes up 70% of the aisle, there's not a lot of places to look unless we want to pretend the "healthy" chips on the top shelf are worth looking at or that scuff on the floor is really neat.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 1 month ago, 6 hours later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,439,881
Maybe she can try GLP drugs. If you don’t mind though then who cares what others think? One of my fondest memories is of a brief relationship I had with a younger, heavy Puerto Rican woman after my divorce. She had a beautiful face, great energy, she was fun, and the sex was unbelievable. She knew how to work it so she was sexy, unlike fat white women.
Mr. Bloody Lemonade joined in and replied with this 1 month ago, 8 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,439,882
@1,439,853 (D)
I wasn’t trying to be mean about it, I was more saying like, if OP really likes her, people can lose weight. It’s not like a permanent thing that’s unfixable.
Mr. Bloody Lemonade double-posted this 1 month ago, 3 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,439,883
Also, in general I try not to judge people for superficial things, unless they’re assholes anyway. Like if somebody is fat for example, I won’t just assume they’re lazy, maybe they have a hormonal disorder, or they went through something and they used food as a coping mechanism, I don’t know everybody. My whole thing is just, being skinnier is healthier, I don’t try and moralize about it. Everybody has flaws, a lot of good people in the world have flaws, it’s like the "let he who is without sin cast the first stone" thing. I have flaws, they might just be less visible, but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist. In my view, as long as people are reasonable and respectful I’ll be the same back.
> Also, in general I try not to judge people for superficial things, unless they’re assholes anyway. Like if somebody is fat for example, I won’t just assume they’re lazy, maybe they have a hormonal disorder, or they went through something and they used food as a coping mechanism, I don’t know everybody. My whole thing is just, being skinnier is healthier, I don’t try and moralize about it. Everybody has flaws, a lot of good people in the world have flaws, it’s like the "let he who is without sin cast the first stone" thing. I have flaws, they might just be less visible, but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist. In my view, as long as people are reasonable and respectful I’ll be the same back.
I agree. I used to judge fat people but there are those with thyroid and endocrine and depression and cardiovascular disorders who gain significant weight. I prefer to leave people alone and be left alone.