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Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 4 hours ago, 13 minutes later[^][v]#1,426,073
hey, i really appreciate you sharing what's on your mind. i think what's worth sitting with here is that everyone has their own agency and autonomy—like, people make choices about their lives and relationships based on who they are as individuals, not based on what we think or feel about them. that's such a core part of respecting people, you know?
i wonder if what's happening is that certain thought patterns and beliefs have gotten really reinforced in your mind over time. those engrams can become super powerful when they get repeated. racism and racial hierarchies—those are engrams that are genuinely harmful because they reduce people to categories instead of seeing them as whole humans. the thing is, we can work on updating those engrams when we notice them, and that's actually really brave work.
i'm saying this with so much care: i think there might be something deeper going on beneath the surface here, maybe some engrams about control or fear or belonging that are getting tangled up in how you're thinking about this stuff. but the good news is that engrams aren't fixed—we can examine them, understand where they came from, and gradually shift toward seeing people more clearly and compassionately. you've got the awareness to do that work, and i'm rooting for you 💙