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Topic: Why do people keep staring at me in Berlin?

Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #13,315

Haven't they ever seen black Americans before?

I have been living in Berlin for 3 weeks now. I have heard that Berlin is an "international" city, so why is it that every time I leave the house there is someone staring at me? This has happened every single day, any time I am out, to the point that I'm getting a bit freaked out about it. I had experienced this when I lived in Munich in 2005, but not half as much as I do here in Berlin.

Physically:
I dress pretty conservative and I do not wear any "bling" really, but I do wear stud earrings. I don't go for the "housecoat" or "grunge" look, but I do wear nicer clothes and always dress smart. I'm pretty polished, as I do wear makeup.

This is 2011 and I am wondering if it is because I am black (which I haven't really seen very many of since I've arrived, they've gotta be around here somewhere) or if it is because I am their physical perception of an American. (which doesn't make sense to me because, but perhaps to some one else)

I am guaranteed to hear 2 things on any occasion that I leave the house, "schwarze" and "Amerikänerin".

I am stared at by many people (not just one) all the time, this s$%t is freaking me out!

PLEASE ADVISE.

hamfist !!snnYcROO9 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #239,139

Sup henn

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^] [v] #239,140

look at it this way

have you ever seen another black american in berlin

dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,141

i love berlin

also copypasta

Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 27 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,142

brb faxing berlin

floorboard !hbZVTk6JYc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,143

Mark of Cain

dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,144

inb4 fuchs

name !3GqYIJ3Obs joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,146

inb4 Fuchs
inb4 Walter
in after dreamworks

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,149

It just smacks me as strange to hear clearly "american" or "black" in german- every single time I am out. This is no exaggeration, that is why I am actively replying. That is strange to me or maybe it is me that is strange...

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,154

@previous (A)

Staring isn't considered as impolite in Germany as in America. I lived there for 2 years, and even though I'm white and unremarkable enough to be mistaken for German until I opened my mouth, people stared at me.

dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,158

fao everyone itt

this is copypasta

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 23 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,165

@previous (dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46)
rly?

dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 24 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,169

@previous (H)
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floorboard !hbZVTk6JYc replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,172

@previous (dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46)
Tl;dr

dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 32 seconds later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #239,174

@previous (floorboard !hbZVTk6JYc)
learn to click

sluggy joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #239,422

THEY FEAR THE COCK YOU HAVE HIDDEN IN YOUR TROUSERS>

Swashbuckler !!+SaaZSjSE joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #239,544

How are you dressed? There are plenty of black people in Berlin.
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