Topic: Women’s sex drive is stronger during early pair bonding in relationships.
Anonymous A started this discussion 3 weeks ago#133,142
There is a biological setup to entice. There are bumps during ovulation. Women respond well to love-bombing and intense courtship.
As a divorced guy all of this evolutionary stuff is beneficial. The key is to end it within 3-6 months. Also, to date outside of the community and to avoid any set ups friends propose.
There is absolutely no incentive to dating women in menopause who aren’t doing HRT. Not being an ageist. Some of the New Agey types remain hot for a long time.
No. What I’m saying is that modern dating has perverse incentives. I see none to remarry other than to face a financial crisis in divorce even closer to retirement, assets that can’t be replaced.
Some companionship and getting laid seem to have more immediacy. I had a couple of disastrous single-mom episodes that reinforced this. Plus a woman trying to corral a caretaker for the impending doom of a concealed medical condition.
> Work with a guy that was on wife #4... don't know how he's not out on the street, we don't make great money.
That’s fucking insane. I am not completely closed off to remarriage but prospects aren’t good. It wouldn’t be for stupid modern romantic reasons alone. That fades and marriage is where sex goes to die.
So far no woman who wanted to be “serious” actually was. I think it’s perfectly reasonable for both parties to open their books, reveal debt, medical and family medical conditions, real shit. Marriage is a financial union as much as anything else.
> If she's single after 30 that's a big red flag. > > They've got all the options in the world in their 20s, so why did she wait?
In fairness, I’ve known women who had to focus on careers or whose long-term boyfriends bailed or broke engagements and entered them in the 30s dating pool.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 2 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,419,539
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I’m a male in my 20s and I don’t even like males in their 20s. I’m a bad person and nobody should ever trust me because I haven’t developed empathy yet.