@OP
> They take three months to arrive because of the waiting list
Sounds like a Chinese mail order bride.
@previous (B)
Yes, man, I think you're right. I've heard that women in China are less numerous than the men. Also, I'd imagine that China would not be shy about putting in laws trying to stop their women from fleeing overseas. Yes, actually, I am starting to suspect that acquiring a Chinese mail-order bride these days is very slow and costly.
What are some better countries to order brides from?