Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,378,143
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
There is NO way in hell your ex wants anything to do with you.
You're a LOSER. She has moved on and is in love with a far nicer human than you can ever be.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 4 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,378,150
@1,378,147 (E)
My ex moved on to 36-year-old a gas station manager who collects Nazi memorabilia, calls himself an AI artist, is a (white American) Eastern Orthodox Christian, thinks Djent is good music, and who isn't even dangerous enough to hurt a fly.
I'm self-aware enough to admit that their marriage is most likely more stable than our relationship was. I'm also smart enough to know that women don't crave stability like they crave good sex from a guy who disregards their emotions often.
Anonymous E replied with this 6 months ago, 4 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,378,155
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
At least you're honest enough to admit you're a waste of human flesh. Now you want to fuck her over, in the worst way.
Man up and stop being a jerk.
Evidence replied with this 6 months ago, 4 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,378,159
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg) > All I want is for her to want to reconnect with me so that I can ignore her like she's done me for the past 3.5 years.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 46 seconds later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,378,161
@previous (Evidence)
How does that imply, in any way, that I'm a waste of human flesh? It's more like I just want her to feel the pain she's inflicted on me for so long.
> My ex moved on to 36-year-old a gas station manager who collects Nazi memorabilia, calls himself an AI artist, is a (white American) Eastern Orthodox Christian, thinks Djent is good music, and who isn't even dangerous enough to hurt a fly. > > I'm self-aware enough to admit that their marriage is most likely more stable than our relationship was. I'm also smart enough to know that women don't crave stability like they crave good sex from a guy who disregards their emotions often.
Oh, so she’s white trash. Well obviously you’d be into that.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,382
@previous (I)
Being able to commit violence effectively is strength. At the same time, being able to withhold that ability is strength. It's like yin and yang. They harmonize each other when you respect both of those strengths.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,384
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
you sound like a psychopath. does your ex know you believe men who beat women are better than men who don't? maybe that's why you're her ex.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 26 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,387
@1,378,384 (I)
Well, she lied on Facebook one time when a mutual friend publicly posted about how much more he liked me than her new (at the time) boyfriend, and how much better I was. She commented back asking if he thought men that hit women were better.
The thing is, I never hit her. I did steal her cellphone one day, and she chased me down and grabbed it out of my hand and then started beating me in the skull with the cellphone so I had to push her off of me.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,396
@1,378,392 (I)
Which time? The cops weren't called the time. They were the night I showed up at her apartment honking my car horn and knocking on her door, and they were when I showed up at her workplace to question why she blocked me on everything, but I was never arrested. She attempted to get 3 restraining orders over a three year period. I convinced her to drop the first one (and then we separately drove back to my house so I could fuck her and sell her an eighth of weed), then she kept the second one a month later, but I still broke it and we still maintained a hidden, quasi-relationship for the duration of it.
She tried to get the last one two years after the first two because of the workplace incident. All I did was knock on the window before the store was opened, so I'm not sure why she thought I was a danger.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,399
@1,378,396 (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
seems to me like you're taking advantage of a woman who had a problem, and are mad that you can't exploit her anymore because she's better without you. you sound like a psychopath.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,404
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
seems to me like you're a psychopath who can't not dig his own hole when trying to justify why he abuses women. usually, people talk around this kind of thing. but your honesty about being a total psychopath is pretty refreshing.
T-34 replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,407
@previous (I)
I think calling him a psychopath makes him sound cooler than he is. He’s not like a genius criminal mastermind or anything. He’s a guy that goes broke smoking weed and gets excited about gig apps.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 53 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,408
@1,378,404 (I)
I'm not a psychopath, and the reason for that is because I show remorse for my past behaviors. I'm also not a narcissist for this same reason.
However, I do have some psychopathic and narcissistic tendencies, and I'm charming in a goofball sort of way. If I started going to the gym, I'd be destroying early-20-somethings on a regular basis and I wouldn't give a shit about my ex.
I was never even an abuser. I was toxic, but unaware of the way my upbringing shaped my toxicity. To label me as an abuser discredits over 8 years of work that I've done in unlearning bad behaviors.
T-34 replied with this 6 months ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,410
But anyway, I’m not concerned about his ex at all. He said his ex is married to somebody who works at a gas station and collects nazi memorabilia. Losers tend to like losers, and people who aren’t nazis tend not to date people who are nazis. So she’s probably some white trash whatever that’s as messed up as he is.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 19 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,411
@1,378,409 (I)
That's not the mic-drop moment you think it is, man.
The first one was petty bullshit and she lied all throughout the report. She was pissy because I pissed all over our apartment, took all the furniture and basically everything else, and went and got my own place. So she used the restraining order as an attack.
The second one was justified because I showed up at her apartment a few weeks later honking and beating on her door (cops got called).
The third one was also bullshit, because all I did was show up at her store before she opened it up for the day. She opened at 6am and it was like 5:50am and I showed up because she had blocked me, started seeing the new guy, and wasn't responding to any of my pleas to unblock me. She never unlocked the door to talk to me and instead called the cops, who made me leave. Funny thing about this one is that the judge literally laughed at her after I told him I had nothing to testify, and he determined that her case was bullshit.
So yeah, she weaponized the courts against me to humiliate me and play victim. That's just her nature. She's an abandoner. She abandoned her family when I came along, abandoned her friends, abandoned me, and will abandon him eventually.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 20 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,418
@previous (I)
It happened almost 4 years ago but like how else would someone respond when the person they built their life around for the previous 6 years cuts them off? Not logically, that’s for sure.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,421
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
butthurt deflections because you're obviously a psychopath are still replies, your ability to dig holes is unparalleled.
T-34 replied with this 6 months ago, 57 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,437
I’d provide more details on the situation of the person you remind me of, but I’m not going to tell you because it would require details you don’t need to know. But I will say, there’s a registered sex offender out there that sounds very similar to you.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 8 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,438
@1,378,435 (T-34)
I’ve never committed any sort of sexual crime. I’ve never even considered it. Maybe the closest thing was an unwanted kiss on a girl in high school, but who hasn’t done that?
@1,378,436 (I)
No need to be snarky. I’m looking for genuine thoughts, not snide remarks.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,442
@previous (A) > Maybe the closest thing was an unwanted kiss on a girl in high school, but who hasn’t done that?
me. most people, even. all the women that have kissed me did so consensually. not that an alpha male whose ex filed three different restraining orders against you would care about that kind of thing. you sound like a psychopath.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,452
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
that's really funny to say for reasons you're too new to recognize. oh, to be young and fresh on minichan, making a fool of myself...
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,469
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
you sound like a psychopath. is your psychosexual compulsion to get the last word why you showed up at your ex's workplace?
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,471
@previous (I)
I don't have any desire to get the last word, but I do have a desire to set the record straight. I legitimately wanted to know what was going on between the two of us because I genuinely didn't know. I was there to ask her to set the record straight.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,476
@previous (epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg)
i only know what you've shared. try sharing more flattering and cool things about yourself, instead of things like "i think great men are violent" or "women only want abusive creeps" or "my ex got three restraining orders against me and i resent her being happy with her new partner". because you sound like a psychopath.
T-34 double-posted this 6 months ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,478
Maybe in Germany back in the day, somebody should have been like, "Hey, Adolf, I think you might be a psychopath and a racist. Please stop!" And then World War Two wouldn’t have happened.
Anonymous I replied with this 6 months ago, 7 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,479
@1,378,477 (T-34)
i have no desire to change hearts and minds here, i'm just seeing how long he'll keep replying with new things, like i'm arguing for real and not just goading him.
epoch flicker !!//ofCutyg (OP) replied with this 6 months ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#1,378,484
@previous (I)
You keep saying that word, but the whole repetition tactic you're trying to pull stopped being effective 10 times ago, and even then it wasn't really.