Topic: Should I ship my ex’s painting to her?
Anonymous A started this discussion 1 week ago #125,938
We were together for 4-6 years depending on how you count them. Towards the end she painted this for me. The last time she returned a message of mine was over 3 years ago and has since blocked me in every way conceivable. Shes now married to a new guy and they bought a house together in a city about an hour away. She has no clue that I know her new address.
What are your thoughts?
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 44 minutes later[^] [v] #1,364,119
Leave her alone
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 24 seconds later, 44 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,120
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 9 minutes later, 54 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,121
@OP
> We were together for 4-6 years depending on how you count them. Towards the end she painted this for me.
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> The last time she returned a message of mine was over 3 years ago and has since blocked me in every way conceivable. Shes now married to a new guy and they bought a house together in a city about an hour away. She has no clue that I know her new address.
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> What are your thoughts?
I think she'd be really happy to hear from you after so long. If she only lives an hour away there's no need to ship it. Surprise her and deliver the painting yourself.
Good luck and let us know how it goes!
> We were together for 4-6 years depending on how you count them. Towards the end she painted this for me.
>
> The last time she returned a message of mine was over 3 years ago and has since blocked me in every way conceivable. Shes now married to a new guy and they bought a house together in a city about an hour away. She has no clue that I know her new address.
>
> What are your thoughts?
I think she'd be really happy to hear from you after so long. If she only lives an hour away there's no need to ship it. Surprise her and deliver the painting yourself.
Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 5 minutes later, 59 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,123
@previous (C)
That’s actually a really good idea! I was in her city recently and considered driving by but I needed to get home so I didn’t.
That’s actually a really good idea! I was in her city recently and considered driving by but I needed to get home so I didn’t.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 40 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,124
@OP
Just throw it away or donate it to Goodwill
Just throw it away or donate it to Goodwill
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,125
@previous (D)
It’s a really meaningful piece, though. Don’t you think she’d appreciate having it gifted to her?
It’s a really meaningful piece, though. Don’t you think she’d appreciate having it gifted to her?
Anonymous D replied with this 1 week ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,127
@previous (A)
> It’s a really meaningful piece, though. Don’t you think she’d appreciate having it gifted to her?
No, she probably would just throw it away and contemplate getting a restraining order against you.
> It’s a really meaningful piece, though. Don’t you think she’d appreciate having it gifted to her?
No, she probably would just throw it away and contemplate getting a restraining order against you.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,129
@previous (D)
I’m not sure why she would. She dropped the first one in court, allowed me to ignore the second one until it expired, and she got laughed out of the courtroom by the judge for the third one.
I’m not sure why she would. She dropped the first one in court, allowed me to ignore the second one until it expired, and she got laughed out of the courtroom by the judge for the third one.
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Meta joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 34 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,131
@1,364,125 (A)
She will unblock you, realize what she lost, and welcome you back into her life. This will totally work and it’s not at all creepy or weird or anything.
She will unblock you, realize what she lost, and welcome you back into her life. This will totally work and it’s not at all creepy or weird or anything.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 24 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,133
Meta replied with this 1 week ago, 35 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,136
@previous (A)
No. I am being sarcastic. This is a terrible idea. Burn the painting is what I would seriously recommend.
No. I am being sarcastic. This is a terrible idea. Burn the painting is what I would seriously recommend.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 week ago, 21 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,138
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 1 week ago, 37 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,139
Fuck how do I remove an image???
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,140
Given she put you on her shit list. Leave her alone. Now she has a nice house and a better lover. She would just laugh at you.
Damn you even look like a looooooser.
Damn you even look like a looooooser.
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@1,364,147 (A)
> I used to play in little league.
I used to swim, but I don't have shelves full of swimming shorts in my house.
> I used to play in little league.
I used to swim, but I don't have shelves full of swimming shorts in my house.
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@1,364,138 (A)
You should burn it in a private fireplace, fire pit, barbecue grill or some other suitable receptacle you can easily and privately access. You should be the only one that knows about it. You should not tell anyone about it.
You should burn it in a private fireplace, fire pit, barbecue grill or some other suitable receptacle you can easily and privately access. You should be the only one that knows about it. You should not tell anyone about it.
Oatmeal Fucker !BYUc1TwJMU joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 46 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,155
Oh my god
boof joined in and replied with this 1 week ago, 20 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,364,156
That's a lot of baseballs!