Topic: Both my girlfriends want to move in with me.
Erik !saAqdaazn2 started this discussion 1 day ago #125,427
I keep kicking the can down the road but it's coming to ahead and I can't avoid it much longer. They also both want to go on holiday in May.
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 9 minutes later[^] [v] #1,358,714
You'll have to choose one mate, lest you risk losing both. Maybe you can convert them to harem mode and keep both?
Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 5 minutes later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,717
Maybe I'm old-fashioned but what's the point of moving in with a woman you've been dating for years if you're not married to her?
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 57 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,725
@previous (Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc)
They want to move in with him, not the other way around, you bork.
They want to move in with him, not the other way around, you bork.
boof joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 11 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,729
Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc replied with this 1 day ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,731
@1,358,725 (D)
I'm supporting his reluctance you berk. What the women want from him makes no sense to me.
I'm supporting his reluctance you berk. What the women want from him makes no sense to me.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,732
@1,358,717 (Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc)
I frankly am surprised they waited this long. The normal route (for people my age anyway) is:
Date while living separately for 6 months - 2 years
Move in together to see if you can stand living with them every day for 1-3 years
If the move in experiment went well, propose. If not, break up and go back on the market.
I frankly am surprised they waited this long. The normal route (for people my age anyway) is:
Date while living separately for 6 months - 2 years
Move in together to see if you can stand living with them every day for 1-3 years
If the move in experiment went well, propose. If not, break up and go back on the market.
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Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU double-posted this 1 day ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,733
Also @OP you should just get a duplex and rent each half with a different woman. You can alternate the nights you are at home with each woman for "work" reasons and easily sneak between them.
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Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,735
They both must be incredibly stupid to not have caught on yet
dw !p9hU6ckyqw joined in and replied with this 1 day ago, 29 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,739
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 23 hours ago, 28 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,747
@1,358,717 (Father Dave !RsSxeehGwc)
> Maybe I'm old-fashioned but what's the point of moving in with a woman you've been dating for years if you're not married to her?
its because you only fuck kids
> Maybe I'm old-fashioned but what's the point of moving in with a woman you've been dating for years if you're not married to her?
its because you only fuck kids
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 23 hours ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,749
@1,358,739 (dw !p9hU6ckyqw)
Not really. If you don't know if you want to marry someone after 3 years of dating, the answers is almost certainly that you do not want to, and it's better to move on and find someone you actually do want to!
Not really. If you don't know if you want to marry someone after 3 years of dating, the answers is almost certainly that you do not want to, and it's better to move on and find someone you actually do want to!
boof replied with this 23 hours ago, 9 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,754
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
yeah I get puzzled by people who effectively live the married life in every way except for the documents and ceremony, then inform people of their upcoming marriage, and we are like, we couldn't tell that you weren't even married all this time, now you want me to show up to some bullshit and give you shit
yeah I get puzzled by people who effectively live the married life in every way except for the documents and ceremony, then inform people of their upcoming marriage, and we are like, we couldn't tell that you weren't even married all this time, now you want me to show up to some bullshit and give you shit
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 14 hours ago, 8 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,785
@1,358,749 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
That would be very very short here I don't know anyone who would marry after 3 years
That would be very very short here I don't know anyone who would marry after 3 years
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 14 hours ago, 22 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,789
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 14 hours ago, 5 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,790
Erik !saAqdaazn2 (OP) replied with this 11 hours ago, 2 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,799
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 3 hours ago, 8 hours later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,358,848
@1,358,785 (dw !p9hU6ckyqw)
I mean my range has 5 years before announcing engagement (which happens usually 12-18 months before a wedding) as the high end so 6.5 years from dating to marriage seems a bit high to me? Idk things might be different in Europe. How long do people there date before marriage?
@previous (Erik !saAqdaazn2)
It is for women! And they make up 2/3rds of the people in your relationship so...
I mean my range has 5 years before announcing engagement (which happens usually 12-18 months before a wedding) as the high end so 6.5 years from dating to marriage seems a bit high to me? Idk things might be different in Europe. How long do people there date before marriage?
@previous (Erik !saAqdaazn2)
It is for women! And they make up 2/3rds of the people in your relationship so...