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Topic: I have no friends

Anonymous A started this discussion 2 months ago #124,708

How do I meet new people?

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 8 minutes later[^] [v] #1,354,569

Once you age out of school stuff, it's usually by life choices and status. Married couples hang, people with kids do play dates, single people with careers pick social hobbies like wine and cheese night, nerds play Warhammer at the game shops, gearheads go to car meets... stuff like that. I've only got one friend left from college and we only occasionally hang because we put the effort into it.

Another option is pestering everyone at work but those people annoy the shit outta me. I just put in 40 hours, don't want to see your faces on the weekends too.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 4 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,573

Can you make friends at work or join some sort of club?

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 7 minutes later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,578

People bond over shared experiences or shared hobbies so you either make friends with people you spend time with regularly (coworkers) or you make friends with people who have the same hobbies as you by joining clubs and going to events. Helps if there's a small to moderate amount of alcohol involved!

The Lunch Guy !wGr7BnvXQ2 joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 4 hours later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,602

Apparently the best way to make friends is to join a kayak club.

pew joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 2 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,613

thereve gotta be fb groups or something
i cba to look into it yet

hobbies are gay but i used to go to cafes and spots in the good part of town that aee too far to go now so im kinda screwed. and rent theres too high (praying for a crash)

(Edited 2 minutes later.)

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 2 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,642

I wouldn't have any friends if I didn't smoke weed

boof joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 6 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,724

volunteer at the local gerbil shelter

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 2 months ago, 5 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,354,748

@previous (boof)
i dunno about that actually helping OPs problem, but being legally entitled to shoot richard gere in the nads with beanbag gun whenever he shows up is its own reward.
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