Anonymous A started this discussion 1 year ago#118,910
So this bully had a girlfriend in work that left him for a Romanian guy, at work. Apparently to my friend, what a bitch thing to do. But idk it makes sense, he's self righteous and easily annoyed.
Well alright if she was like that then I'd say the men are equally bitches because they are not innocent bystanders but partaking in the circle dance or whatever you call it
Anonymous B replied with this 1 year ago, 5 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#1,305,103
@previous (A)
Of course they are partaking, all life is compelled by their instincts to find a mate.
What are men supposed to do? They are going to take the risk because the alternative is just giving up. Men who just give up don't pass down their genes or culture.
As long as women can defraud and use men without consequence, they will.
Natural selection and the desire to find a mate aren't going away. The only way to solve a problem like this is setting rules for courtship in society, where both have responsibilities not to hurt the other.
Anonymous B replied with this 1 year ago, 5 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^][v]#1,305,109
@previous (A)
Women don't have to provide for their boyfriends financially pre-wall so she doesn't need to worry about him taking advantage of her. If he stops providing, or she gets bored she can find someone else. If she has a kid the government will garnish his wages to pay for it.
But now we are taking a turn into another direction of what we were originally talking about, kind of like the narratives that poison all our lives.
Imagine that's your girl, your real girl that you raised and loved, not fucked. And some sleezy bastards in a warehouse call her a bitch for not loving a douchebag?
If I had a child that was pretending to love someone just to take advantage of them financially, before dumping them, I'd understand why they said it. Obviously parents are biased towards their kids, and would side with them anyway, but that doesn't mean you can't look at it objectively and understand why it happened.
If you had a kid stealing from people while abusing them emotionally would you be OK with it?
I think he's a douchebag because I've experienced it first hand. I would prefer if my girl found partners her own age and it's a plus if they are nice enough to pay for things. Perhaps I'd warn her that some men think they are buying her.
Seriously now, we don't even know if that's the case, if this is how she is like.
If he's a douchebag, then yes, she should leave him asap.
We don't know what she's like, but that's usually how it goes. Every time a woman drops those requirements its because shes hit the wall and has been forced to.
Anonymous B double-posted this 1 year ago, 44 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,305,125
@1,305,121 (C)
Sounds fun for her, and even the old man gets what he wanted, but how would this affect the self-esteem of older women not involved in the relationship?