Topic: Insecurity about dating a chubby girl

Anonymous A started this discussion 1 year ago #117,446

Now she’s not obese or even fat. Her body is slightly chubby, but I can easily fit my arms around her when I give her hugs. She’s got a little meat on the bones, but I am clinically obese according to BMI standards.

However, her neck and face are chubby. Her neck is the most egregious part of it and I notice it more in pictures than I actually do when we’re together in real life.

I’m worried about what my friends and family are going to think when I introduce her to them. I don’t want them to think that I’m only with her because I can’t get someone better. But I really truly love spending time with her. We’re firing on all cylinders, especially in the bedroom.

Any advice?

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Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 8 minutes later[^] [v] #1,292,927

Just sit her down and gently let her know that she is hideous and needs to go on a diet asap, because you feel insecure about being with her.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 1 year ago, 22 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,292,929

@previous (B)
Do you think that will work?

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 8 minutes later, 38 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,292,930

You know what a fat girl and a moped have in common?

They're both fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you on either one.

Anonymous B replied with this 1 year ago, 4 minutes later, 43 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,292,931

@1,292,929 (A)

I think if you are gentle enough, it will work. She will appreciate you letting her know how she is reflecting badly on you.

Minichan