Topic: Need some advice on something that happened with my girlfriend
Anonymous A started this discussion 1 year ago#116,723
In a nutshell, my girlfriend and I have been dating for three months. Although we don't live together yet, we make a point to spend a substantial amount of time together whenever we can. I have a flexible schedule, which allows me to be available to hang out almost anytime, while she, on the other hand, has a busier schedule. Juggling work, two kids aged 10 and 5, and helping them with homework keeps her plate full. I have immense respect for her and the hard work she puts in as a full-time mom balancing work with 25-30 hours per week. Consequently, I make it a priority to assist her in any way I can.
Recently, an incident occurred that caused some tension in our relationship. When I went to bed, the father of her 5-year-old daughter, Darrell, unexpectedly showed up late at night to pick her up. I woke up to text messages from her updating me on the situation, with the last message stating that Darrell had fallen asleep on her couch after working late and left at 3 am. Following this event, my girlfriend started acting strangely. She accused me of not giving her enough attention and prioritizing my work over our relationship. This accusation caught me off guard as I genuinely make an effort to support her and show her how much I value her. I constantly praise her and strive to treat her like a queen, mirroring the example set by my stepfather.
I'm confused about her sudden shift in behavior and her accusations, and I'm seeking input from Minichan on how to navigate this challenging situation.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 5 seconds later, 21 minutes after the original post[^][v]#1,288,001
She just fucked her ex. Now she feels guilty, so she will try to lay it off on you not giving her enough attention. That is a typical move. I would just forget it and see if she forgets about it and starts acting like she use to. Give it a month or so and if no change just move on.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 5 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,288,041
Sorry but you've definitely been cucked. If she does love you she might eventually confess. But whatever you do, don't hound her about it. The more you ignore her, the greater the chance that she will come crying back to you.
Fathers Merra !9FzcJmeEIg replied with this 1 year ago, 50 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,288,042
@1,288,002 (A)
She does not love you. She got fucked by her ex. that is not love. It's totally selfish and evil. Dump her immediately and dodge that bullet.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 1 year ago, 4 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,288,049
He was so sleepy that he accidentally fell asleep on the couch, and yet he was awake enough to drive to her house and allegedly pick up his daughter with the intent to drive her home?