Anonymous A started this discussion 2 years ago#116,219
My husband and I exclusively have anal sex, his dick is way too big for my vagina. It takes time, patience and being really gentle in the beginning, it also requires consistency to keep the muscles loose. He prefers the feeling, it’s smoother, pulls him in and he really likes it when my muscles relax. It’s more intimate and requires a lot more concentration. I also think it feels a lot better than PIV which is another reason why we do it exclusively.
That being said he knows exactly how it feels, he was a famous gay porn star in the early 00’s and has taken an 11” dick in the ass. If he can do that, I can handle 8”.
If there is any inkling that I am in pain or even uncomfortable, he stops. He checks in constantly. He never pressures me. I went through years of marital rape and he doesn’t want me to ever feel like that again.