Anonymous A started this discussion 2 years ago#115,959
Any advice? I can’t seem to cope with the fact that I’m just fundamentally ugly and unattractive to women, and therefore no woman will ever choose me. And if she does it’s because I had to play some song and dance like a court jester to get her attention.
Seriously. Why the fuck should I have to go through all this effort for a bitch that’s probably just gonna get fat, or better yet a girl on a dating app who is already fat, has 3 kids, and doesn’t want any more?
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 22 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,281,204
I know a guy who became attractive to women after becoming a millionaire. Although the woman he married... most would pay millions to not be married to. Some people are truly damned if they do, damned if they don't.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,281,211
Yeah you come across as bitter here which women can generally pick up on and do not want. I dont know what you look like but ugly dudes get dates too, it just takes more effort. I'm not good looking but I get dates. There isnt "one weird trick", but generally if you're fun to be around, have stable employment, and a couple of friends that can (implicitly) vouch that you're normal, you'll get dates if you put yourself out there. If you have those 3 then it's just a numbers game. If you live somewhere with a small population you can try moving to somewhere with more people and a more favorable gender ratio.
Could also be that your dating app bio/photos aren't as good as they could be.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 2 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,281,223
@previous (H)
Unless you become a monk, cut your cock off, or turn gay you're going to be romantically dealing with women for the rest of your life, either a single man or as a bf/husband. Getting jaded by is something you just gotta push through unless you become a gay eunuch monk or whatever.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,281,225
I am sure there's a girl for you, but yeah, you'd have to do the hustle. Why should you? Beats me, start a family maybe? I've never understood it myself OP.
I don't know about "every guy" but like they say (or not idk) where there's willpower there is also a way. OP just gotta give the shit some time, I've seen a lot of shit happen with enough time. It's like the dice is rolled every second.
Anonymous E replied with this 2 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,281,230
@1,281,227 (H)
Because there's a trend of guys becoming girls these days, if you didn't hear. So the ratio isn't what you might think. The guy I mentioned earlier ITT did it, actually.
> I don't know about "every guy" but like they say (or not idk) where there's willpower there is also a way.
Wanting something doesn't change reality. The rules are like musical chairs: there are more people than can win. If you have a lot of willpower, there's still more people than chairs, nothing fundamentally changes.
> Because there's a trend of guys becoming girls these days, if you didn't hear.
That's a trend because there's a lot of guys who are going to be single if they stay guys.
Anonymous C replied with this 2 years ago, 43 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,281,237
Women do not like guys who have no confidence and who are angry and resentful towards women. You really need to get past that part, then go out and meet people make friends. It will happen. You might not even be ugly. We need to see your face.
Anonymous H triple-posted this 2 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,281,252
The feminist view contradicts natural selection.
If a few simple steps did it, men would do it.
It would be as instinctive and easy as finding food and stuffing your face, punching threats, putting your hands forward when you fall, or anything else to keep the genes reproducing.
Yet there's a widespread societal trend for men to just not wash, and respect women to keep the line going? BS. Creatures stop mating when the availability of mates is significantly reduced.
Hypergamy reduces the supply of women enough to create a widespread incel crisis. That's the explanation that actually fits natural selection.