Topic: Do most people that had gay experiences as a child become gay?
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago#11,587
I have spoken to a lot of gay men on the internet that had varying same sex experiences as a child. I had sex with other children and adults when I was a child, later in life I have developed a fondness for males of varying ages... I wonder if it is common for shit like this to happen? Has there been any research or studies in this? Anything?
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^][v]#208,575
Most of them turn out to be paedophiles, I heard.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 18 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^][v]#208,576
I thought that you were carrying out research on this, to4sty? What ever happened to your brilliant experiments?
Kakubunretsu !!7Enb4sycc joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 9 minutes after the original post[^][v]#208,582
> varying ages
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#208,584
@208,576 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
Thinking about filming further experiments and releasing them for monetary contributions in order to fund future research. Recently spent all my cash on a flight to Thailand, much research will be conducted there.
Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[^][v]#208,597
And then to4str got his nickname because everyone was always putting new things inside of him.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 27 minutes later, 57 minutes after the original post[^][v]#208,615
And I had thought to4str had left long ago. Now I see he is still around.
I really think it's all conditioning. People are born straight but get conditioned to be fucked up.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 58 minutes after the original post[^][v]#208,618
> People are born straight but get conditioned to be fucked up.
I agree completely. With the exception of some homosexuals, but that's not fucked up...
Handel !khEOdtKF56 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,862
> I agree completely. With the exception of some homosexuals
What the actual fuck.
The vast majority of homosexuals are born gay, the same can be said for straight people and bisexuals.
It's very rare that rearing gets in the way of breeding.
Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,868
@previous (Handel !khEOdtKF56)
I think you misread my post, I agree with what you said. I meant pedos are a product of condition, and most homosexuals are a product of genes.
I only mentioned homosexuals because its a 'non-straight' sexual preference.
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Handel !khEOdtKF56 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,869
> I think you misread my post, I agree with what you said. I meant pedos are a product of condition, and most homosexuals are a product of genes. > > I only mentioned homosexuals because its a 'non-straight' sexual preference.
No evidence for either. It's purely speculation.
Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,882
@previous (sluggy)
Pretty sure I've read some stuff about homosexes having a brain that develops differently. As far as pedos go, I concede it is pure speculation, but it is widely accepted, and an educated speculation. With either pedophiles its either conditional, or genetic, which one are you inclined to believe it is? Hell bud, you have unique insight here, tell me what you think.
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advi !!3gpAcg/hF joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,884
@208,871 (Homestar !RUNNERV7vk)
What do you think of this?
Homestar !RUNNERV7vk replied with this 15 years ago, 13 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,887
Seems too difficult to generalise like that.
I had a lot of sexual experiences as a kid, but many of the guys I had those experiences with are straight today. @previous (advi !!3gpAcg/hF)
Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,888
So it seems likely that your pedophilia stems from conditioning.
sluggy replied with this 15 years ago, 32 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,891
@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Why? What makes you say that?
sluggy double-posted this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,899
@208,882 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Homosexuality used to be treated the same as pedophilia. It was considered a developed condition. It's treatable as well. Those scared straight Christian camps CAN work if the person really wants it.
It's known that the more older male siblings one has, the more likely they are to be gay.
Why is that? If it's genetic, why would a non-genetic factor have such an impact?
I wouldn't be surprised that it's a combination of factors. I just don't know.
No one knows. As, um educated, as your speculation is, you are still reaching a conclusion based on personal bias and how you feel. It's not based on facts.
Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,912
@previous (sluggy)
I did't mean my educated speculation lol. I did take some college level psychology, but that is just the speculation I've read from 'educated' peoples concerning pedophiles. I'm completely open to it being conditional, genetic, or a combination of both. Turning gay people straight is just silly, I reckon it would work just about as well with pedophiles -- not very well. Now that society is beginning to get over the stigma and myths associated with homosexuality, maybe pedophilia will begin to have less of a stigma attached. Your personal struggle with pedophilia made me think about the issue a lot differently than I did before, its just not something that gets discussed a lot, people don't discuss it and come to any rational conclusions, its just a witch hunt. Certainly its time for people to realize a pedophile and a child molester are two different things. Gays used to (and still are I guess) be ostracized as if they would run around raping kids just because they're gay, its funny (and sad) if you think about it.
sluggy replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#208,927
@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I doubt that there will be less of a stigma attached to pedophilia. Look at to catch a predator. Not one exclusive pedophile on that show. Not one decoy was undeveloped. Not one was under 13/14. It's ridiculous.
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. replied with this 15 years ago, 6 hours later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#209,088
> I have spoken to a lot of gay men on the internet that had varying same sex experiences as a child. I had sex with other children and adults when I was a child
me too i'm not gay though
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#209,090
@previous (SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN.) > me too i'm not gay though
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. replied with this 15 years ago, 36 seconds later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#209,091