Tekamine !AnRbswGQv. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 29 minutes later[^][v]#206,963
Sorry to hear that mate. My nan died last February and we only knew she was going to die like 3 weeks previously.
I'm not gonna lie to you, it's tough as I loved my nan like a 3rd parent.
All I can say is don't shut yourself away from people. Talk to your family as they'll be going through it as well.
And most importantly, cherish the time you have left as this will be the stuff you remember in years to come.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#207,033
Just be as comforting as you can.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#207,037
My grandmother had pancreatic cancer for a very long time. Her spirits were so high that it was hard to believe she was dying. It dragged on for so long that I kept thinking she would pull through. It wasn't until she was in hospice care that it really sunk in, and when she passed it was tough.
The best thing to do is keep your spirits high and enjoy the time you have as much as you can. No sense sulking over it and making your remaining time together miserable. It makes things harder in the end, but it's worth it in the long run.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#207,129
that's a pretty typical reaction to that kind of situation, UJ
don't sweat it
nothing to feel bad about
if it's any comfort, all the feelings you think you're missing out on will hit you sooner or later
swamplights !!V3J448+/B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#207,135