Topic: Is it okay to be primarily attracted to Black women?
Anonymous A started this discussion 2 years ago #114,660
I took a trip out of town over the weekend and visited a metro area that has a larger portion of Black women. I matched with a few of them in my time there, and I told one of the more conversational ones that I just really love Black beauty and that it’s not a fetish thing, but that I value diversity and I don’t really experience other ethnicities in my homogenous region.
I’m honestly wondering whether or not it’s okay for me to even have this preference as a white man. I don’t want to do any weird race play shit with a Black girl, but man their beauty literally drives me so wild and makes me feral as fuck. I understand that generalizations and stereotypes are bad, but when I see a Black girl with kinky hair and full lips I fall in love almost immediately.
Is it okay to have a preference for Black women as long as you’re not weird about it? I was honest with one of them and told her that I just really love melanin in women and Black features, and she wasn’t weirded out by it; she responded by telling my that she only dates white men anyway because we don’t have to deal with racism and as a result that makes her feel more free.
“White guys operate in this realm of peace and freedom that creates space for me to be myself. They don't have to really worry about how society sees them or racism.
It's so freeing and there's less pressure.”
The more I thought about it the more I realized how beautiful of a thing that is. Like it’s fucked up that we live in a society that still treats Black people with disrespect, but the fact that a Black woman can find comfort in my whiteness kinda changes my whole perception of interracial relationships. I’ve always been under the impression that Black people have an inherent mistrust for all white people, but this kinda proves that wrong.
What are your thoughts, fora?
I’m honestly wondering whether or not it’s okay for me to even have this preference as a white man. I don’t want to do any weird race play shit with a Black girl, but man their beauty literally drives me so wild and makes me feral as fuck. I understand that generalizations and stereotypes are bad, but when I see a Black girl with kinky hair and full lips I fall in love almost immediately.
Is it okay to have a preference for Black women as long as you’re not weird about it? I was honest with one of them and told her that I just really love melanin in women and Black features, and she wasn’t weirded out by it; she responded by telling my that she only dates white men anyway because we don’t have to deal with racism and as a result that makes her feel more free.
“White guys operate in this realm of peace and freedom that creates space for me to be myself. They don't have to really worry about how society sees them or racism.
It's so freeing and there's less pressure.”
The more I thought about it the more I realized how beautiful of a thing that is. Like it’s fucked up that we live in a society that still treats Black people with disrespect, but the fact that a Black woman can find comfort in my whiteness kinda changes my whole perception of interracial relationships. I’ve always been under the impression that Black people have an inherent mistrust for all white people, but this kinda proves that wrong.
What are your thoughts, fora?
boof joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 1 hour later[^] [v] #1,268,371
> I just really love Black beauty and that it’s not a fetish thing, but that I value diversity(Edited 56 seconds later.)
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,373
I think it's okay amd long you stay respectful of what she's gone through living as a black woman in America
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 2 years ago, 18 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,374
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
That’s my goal. I find race fascinating because there are clear differences in our experience and I want to know more about her experience. I hold the belief that Black girl love is typically much deeper and more authentic because of their experiences with racial trauma.
That’s my goal. I find race fascinating because there are clear differences in our experience and I want to know more about her experience. I hold the belief that Black girl love is typically much deeper and more authentic because of their experiences with racial trauma.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,384
@1,268,373 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
> I think it's okay amd long you stay respectful of what she's gone through living as a black woman in America
What, exactly, has she gone through in America?
> I think it's okay amd long you stay respectful of what she's gone through living as a black woman in America
What, exactly, has she gone through in America?
Black woman in your town joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 8 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,386
Feets, don' fails me now!
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 2 years ago, 8 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,388
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC double-posted this 2 years ago, 15 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,389
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,268,398
All that really matters to me is her ass cheeks are big and wide and that they can be spread far enough apart so that I can see vivid contrast of my white penis/cock gliding to and fro in her black/purple anus/butt all being pronounced as one word.