Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 3 hours later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,255,684
Dude, you've exchanged a few messages with one woman. This isn't a guarantee that Christianity is a free ticket to a girlfriend.
Getting so excited at such an early stage is a bad idea, tbh. You're just setting yourself up for more disappointment. At least wait until after a date or two.
Anonymous D replied with this 2 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,255,692
@1,255,684 (Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE)
^ Sounds like something someone would say that is single and forever alone. Don't take advice from adults who watch cartoons, like making or painting toy models, or have an obsessive interest in events that happened over a 1000 years ago (or obsessive interests in anything else, for that matter).
What you've seen, OP, is absolutely a guarantee that Christianity is your ticket to a trad wife. And this type of self-doubt / self-hate that the guy above demonstrated is absolutely the type of noise you should shut out of your mind. Now. Right now. It's all about mindset. You think like a failure, you will be a failure. Act and breath like the success you are. TBH, if I were you, I'd order an engagement ring now, not only to keep this positive energy going but to save the future trouble of doing so. Find some pictures of her online and photoshop the two of you together so you can make wedding invitations. You'll be happy you did. Trust me.
Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE replied with this 2 years ago, 28 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,255,706
@previous (Green !BEERiVqJJw)
It's short for traditional. It's a label that's become popular in the last few years, to describe women (and I think men too) who ascribe to "traditional values", especially in regards to relationships and families. No sex before marriage, Christian, men are in charge in the relationship, women do the housework, things like that.
Personally, and this is just my opinion, I think it's a little silly. I think they're idealising the past, thinking it was some kind of golden age because women had less rights and men were more often in charge. Sure if two consenting adults want to do that kind of thing then that's fine and probably harmless, but I'm not sure it's the healthiest mindset to have in most cases. IMO a relationship should be more like a team than a boss and a subordinate.
Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 1 hour later, 10 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,255,721
@1,255,706 (Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE)
I do think what we today describe as "gender roles" do have a biological basis. If women and men want to return to the breadwinner/housewife paradigm, it seems like it would work better in some ways (child care, better food/more home cooking, etc).
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 2 years ago, 6 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#1,255,999
@1,255,903 (Meta !Sober//iZs)
Setting up society so that women are entirely dependent on the man they marry for their financial well-being is probably not better on the whole for everyone.