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Topic: I have a really hard time forgiving people

Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago #107,139

Hey. I have social anxiety. And I spend most of my time all alone. I have a lot of time for thinking over things. And currently I dwell on this one time when my friend called me an idiot to sum it up (in a serious manner) when we were playing a board game. I want to forgive this, but it was so uncalled for and I wish I said something then. Now I want to stop thinking about it but I can't let it go. I was wondering how you do it? How do you forgive people? Maybe someone could help me move on.

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #1,203,044

Forgive and forget is basically my mantra, and I'm still a mess. Sorry, bud.

boof joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,064

hold up a book and point at it, "look, look, I'm smart, I'm smart"

he'll get the message

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 4 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,076

Go full Fredo. Yell at him "I'm SMART and I want RESPECT"

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 6 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,094

Watch the movie Pumpkinhead to see the consequences of holding grudges.

Anonymous E double-posted this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,095

Also remember that when people are unkind to you, it is always because something is broken in them, not in you. I had to learn that working in customer service.

LadyD !Pool..v42s joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 9 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,099

Most things I move past in a handful.of minutes. If something else sticks for longer, I'll try to pinpoint it and then if possible interact with the person and try to work it out. There's only a few people that I will refuse to talk to again.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,110

@1,203,094 (E)
I love this reference

Anonymous E replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,111

@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
I think it's a really good lesson about vengeance, yes?
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