Topic: I realized that I was the one texting first every time.

JIM started this discussion 3 years ago #106,784

One of my only friends, we've been friends for 12 years. Super close. I realized he stopped putting in effort to the friendship. He never texts me first. He recently started working a shitty retail job after being a NEET for all of his life, and as a result he could only hang out on Sundays. I realized that I was the only one putting for the effort to hang out on Sundays. So I didn't message him this Sunday. Guess whose phone was pure silence today.

Why did my only friend abandon me?

boof joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 21 minutes later[^] [v] #1,199,935

could be the shay teype

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,199,937

> my friend just started a full time job and no longer has much free time. should I abandon them while they deal with depression, even though they respond to my texts?

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,199,939

Seems like you're creating deeper meaning where there is none.

killer lettuce 🥬 joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,199,953

ugh

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 45 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,199,958

I feel like if you recognize he's socially inept, you have answered your own question here.

Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 48 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,199,960

JIM, your posts give me the distinct impression that you're a little unhappy in life. 🤔

Minichan