Topic: I matched with a girl on Hinge
JIM started this discussion 4 years ago #106,673
My prompt is "What is the weirdest thing about you?"
She said "All of it"
I said "Try me"
She said "I feel like I've seen you around"
I said "What makes you say that?"
She said "NEVER MIND" and quickly unmatched me.
She realized in that moment that she does know me from somewhere, and apparently it wasn't a good thing. I didn't recognize the girl, but I've matched with a lot of girls in her city and been with a couple of them. Maybe she knew someone I matched with? Maybe she has heard about me from my wrongdoings with my ex? I don't know how, cause the ex lives in a totally different city. How could word travel that fast about a relative nobody?
I don't understand what could have made her have that realization and then immediately nope out of it unless I just have a super bad reputation and everyone knows my secrets.
She said "All of it"
I said "Try me"
She said "I feel like I've seen you around"
I said "What makes you say that?"
She said "NEVER MIND" and quickly unmatched me.
She realized in that moment that she does know me from somewhere, and apparently it wasn't a good thing. I didn't recognize the girl, but I've matched with a lot of girls in her city and been with a couple of them. Maybe she knew someone I matched with? Maybe she has heard about me from my wrongdoings with my ex? I don't know how, cause the ex lives in a totally different city. How could word travel that fast about a relative nobody?
I don't understand what could have made her have that realization and then immediately nope out of it unless I just have a super bad reputation and everyone knows my secrets.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 8 minutes later[^] [v] #1,198,812
Do you have a bad local reputation?
JIM (OP) replied with this 4 years ago, 3 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,813
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
I don't know. I don't know how I could. I used to post stupid emotional shit on Facebook at the beginning of the year but I quit that. I have been on dating apps for years though, and my conduct on it has been at times misogynistic and creepy.
I don't know. I don't know how I could. I used to post stupid emotional shit on Facebook at the beginning of the year but I quit that. I have been on dating apps for years though, and my conduct on it has been at times misogynistic and creepy.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 4 years ago, 7 minutes later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,814
JIM (OP) replied with this 4 years ago, 7 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,819
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 2 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,820
@previous (JIM)
Ever sent a creepy PM? Congratulations, the girl you creeped out shared it with her friends, and probably Reddit.
Ever sent a creepy PM? Congratulations, the girl you creeped out shared it with her friends, and probably Reddit.
shelly joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 32 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,826
i ghosted some weirdo from tinder last week after I asked what they did for living and said they've been unemployed for six months and are job hunting while their camwhoring racket takes off
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,827
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 4 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,829
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,831
@1,198,820 (C)
I worry about this sometimes. I know I've sent some drunken creepy messages over the years. But only ever to girls with overtly sexual profiles, so maybe there's nothing to worry about.
I worry about this sometimes. I know I've sent some drunken creepy messages over the years. But only ever to girls with overtly sexual profiles, so maybe there's nothing to worry about.
Anonymous C replied with this 4 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,833
Anonymous F replied with this 4 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,838
@previous (C)
I don't see anything wrong with sending such messages to someone who is obviously fishing for such messages.
I don't see anything wrong with sending such messages to someone who is obviously fishing for such messages.
shelly replied with this 4 years ago, 53 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,839
Anonymous C replied with this 4 years ago, 23 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,844
Anonymous F replied with this 4 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,846
@previous (C)
You're free to explain your incorrect opinion to me rather than be a smug cunt about it.
You're free to explain your incorrect opinion to me rather than be a smug cunt about it.
Anonymous C replied with this 4 years ago, 15 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,847
@previous (F)
People aren't objects, and two wrongs don't make a right. Do I really need to explain common decency to you?
People aren't objects, and two wrongs don't make a right. Do I really need to explain common decency to you?
Anonymous F replied with this 4 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,850
@previous (C)
You're telling me that you believe when a girl on tinder has nothing but half naked pictures and her bio talks about looking for someone to tie her up and eat her ass, she's actually looking for a respectful gentleman to talk about non sexual things with?
You're telling me that you believe when a girl on tinder has nothing but half naked pictures and her bio talks about looking for someone to tie her up and eat her ass, she's actually looking for a respectful gentleman to talk about non sexual things with?
Anonymous E replied with this 4 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,198,851
mandark replied with this 4 years ago, 1 month later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,740
@1,198,826 (shelly)
> i ghosted some weirdo from tinder last week after I asked what they did for living and said they've been unemployed for six months and are job hunting while their camwhoring racket takes off
update I ghosted them again like 2 weeks ago they were trying so hard and I was like eh I don't have the energy to be friends with another grown up child with no job
> i ghosted some weirdo from tinder last week after I asked what they did for living and said they've been unemployed for six months and are job hunting while their camwhoring racket takes off
update I ghosted them again like 2 weeks ago they were trying so hard and I was like eh I don't have the energy to be friends with another grown up child with no job
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 4 years ago, 53 minutes later, 1 month after the original post[^] [v] #1,203,751
@previous (mandark)
> I don't have the energy to be friends with another grown up child with no job
you're cutting ties with kook now?
> I don't have the energy to be friends with another grown up child with no job
you're cutting ties with kook now?