Topic: How to tell my boyfriend about my hairy, roast beef, dark colored vagina?
Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago#105,994
I've been extremely self conscious because it's why I'm afraid to have sex with my two year boyfriend. He's been extremely wonderful and tells me that I have all the right to initiate sex when I feel ready. The problem is, I am ready, for almost a year now.
I'm light skinned (caucasian) but the entire area from the labia major to the bum hole is dark, close to black. It makes me look like I have loads of sex and that I don't clean the area when I clean it daily as well as I am a virgin.
For hair, I know I can wax but it comes back as stubble two fucking days later and I have to wait a week before it grows back to the length where I can wax again.
For roast beef. It's roast beef and from what I've learned on the internet. It's agreed that it's disgusting.
I'm brought up vaginas as a joke to my boyfriend and asked what the perfect vagina looked like. We served the question awkwardly back and forth before he told me he likes pretty pink and hairless ones. I didn't expect anything less but the face he had on looked so forward and nervous about what he just said. I don't want to ruin everything when everything I have is opposite to what he expects. I've been heavily considering getting labiaplasty, skin bleach and laser hair removal because I'm afraid that this may be the dealbreaker in our relationship. But apparently getting a perfect vagina isn't that easy. The surgeons and clinics I've researched online have no help at all, it's like I have to go to Hollywood and ring up some clinics there if I want to get it professionally done. I'm completely distraught from this personal issue. What should I do?
TL;DR 2 year relationship, have hairy, roast beef, dark colored vagina when boyfriend expects different. Considering surgery, plasty, whole new fix up.