Topic: Let's help ninjj get a girlfriend
Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago #105,070
There's been a lot of negativity around here lately. Let's be a bit more constructive and help ninjj get a gf by suggesting ideas for how he can improve himself here. Begin!
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Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 7 minutes later[^] [v] #1,181,925
But he wants to be a transvestite Flamenco dancer in Barcelona!
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 8 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,926
@previous (B)
In all seriousness, I wonder how many men transition because they, consciously or subconsciously, decide they'd have better success with women as a woman. Judging by what I've seen here, perhaps they are not far off. More power to them, I guess. Although I wouldn't think that'd be necessary for ninjj, to be frank.
In all seriousness, I wonder how many men transition because they, consciously or subconsciously, decide they'd have better success with women as a woman. Judging by what I've seen here, perhaps they are not far off. More power to them, I guess. Although I wouldn't think that'd be necessary for ninjj, to be frank.
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,927
@previous (A)
Nah he could get a girl if he wanted to. He is handsome and of reasonable intelligence.
Nah he could get a girl if he wanted to. He is handsome and of reasonable intelligence.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,928
@previous (B)
Agreed, which is why I said I don't think it's necessary for him.
What suggestions do you have for ninjj, our fora friend?
Agreed, which is why I said I don't think it's necessary for him.
What suggestions do you have for ninjj, our fora friend?
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 16 seconds later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,929
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 55 seconds later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,930
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 31 seconds later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,931
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 23 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,932
@1,181,928 (A)
He needs to just go out to cafes and bars. That is it. Meet some people, talk to girls. He will find someone. But if all he does is go to work then come home and post on Minichan, he will never meet anyone.
He needs to just go out to cafes and bars. That is it. Meet some people, talk to girls. He will find someone. But if all he does is go to work then come home and post on Minichan, he will never meet anyone.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 9 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,935
@previous (B)
I agree, although a bit of self-improvement can go a long way. That is what we're discussing here. It reminds me a quote I learned in the academy:
> A month in the laboratory can often save an hour in the library.
I agree, although a bit of self-improvement can go a long way. That is what we're discussing here. It reminds me a quote I learned in the academy:
> A month in the laboratory can often save an hour in the library.
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,936
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 39 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,947
Green !StaYqkzUPc joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,949
ninjj doesn't need any help in that department.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,952
@previous (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
He expressed a desire to not be single and difficulty in changing that. I'd say that qualifies in needing help. But if you're cruel and heartless, maybe you'd conclude otherwise.
He expressed a desire to not be single and difficulty in changing that. I'd say that qualifies in needing help. But if you're cruel and heartless, maybe you'd conclude otherwise.
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 17 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,956
shelly joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,974
@1,181,952 (A)
wow no all I said was that i'm ok with it I don't have the energy to go to bars and entertain people. just drink whisky and honky tonk
wow no all I said was that i'm ok with it I don't have the energy to go to bars and entertain people. just drink whisky and honky tonk
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,976
@previous (shelly)
Now you're not being straightforward with us.
All other things being equal, would you rather be in a great, loving relationship, or have your life remain exactly as it is?
Now you're not being straightforward with us.
All other things being equal, would you rather be in a great, loving relationship, or have your life remain exactly as it is?
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,979
dw !p9hU6ckyqw joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 47 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,980
why are you so weird and also strange op
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 17 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,981
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 30 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,982
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 10 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,983
also creepy and off-putting
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 48 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,984
@previous (dw !p9hU6ckyqw)
I wouldn't quite say ninjj is either. He might be headed in that direction, but I don't think he's there yet.
I wouldn't quite say ninjj is either. He might be headed in that direction, but I don't think he's there yet.
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 35 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,985
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,987
@previous (dw !p9hU6ckyqw)
And how, exactly, would doing so allow us to gather ideas from the minichan community at large?
And how, exactly, would doing so allow us to gather ideas from the minichan community at large?
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,988
You've all demonstrated you don't give a shit and won't lift a finger to help the best member of this community.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,989
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 14 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,990
Permanent shutdown imminent.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 24 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,991
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,181,998
by the way, EVERYONE on Minichan is creepy and off-putting lol
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,003
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,016
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 37 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,018
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,022
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,028
@previous (A)
is it because i dont offer enough unsollicited and unwarranted "advice" to strangers on the internet?
is it because i dont offer enough unsollicited and unwarranted "advice" to strangers on the internet?
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 12 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,030
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,033
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 25 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,045
@1,182,030 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
Why don't you give dw that advice? Seems like you have a double standard...
Why don't you give dw that advice? Seems like you have a double standard...
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,049
@1,182,028 (dw !p9hU6ckyqw)
How is trying to help someone creepy? Ninjj is free to ignore any of it. Offering advice only serves to empower him, giving him more options and knowledge to select from at his choosing.
How is trying to help someone creepy? Ninjj is free to ignore any of it. Offering advice only serves to empower him, giving him more options and knowledge to select from at his choosing.
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 37 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,051
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,056
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 24 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,057
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 41 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,059
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 36 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,060
@1,182,057 (shelly)
Please point out any flaws in what I've said and cease your ad hominems immediately.
Please point out any flaws in what I've said and cease your ad hominems immediately.
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,062
@previous (A)@1,181,926 (A)
> In all seriousness, I wonder how many men transition because they, consciously or subconsciously, decide they'd have better success with women as a woman. Judging by what I've seen here, perhaps they are not far off. More power to them, I guess.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,065
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 9 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,066
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,068
@previous (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
This is a discussion. There are not sides other than what makes sense and what doesn't. And what you're saying doesn't.
This is a discussion. There are not sides other than what makes sense and what doesn't. And what you're saying doesn't.
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 52 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,069
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 4 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,094
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,098
So not a single word of advice at all in this entire thread. It's almost like no one here gives a shit about a so-called friend they've known for 10+ years. It'd almost be like meeting up with a "friend" after knowing them for a third of your life and just bailing on them at a moment's notice for no discernible reason. It's almost like people here, especially but not entirely ITT, would do this both online and off.
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 26 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,099
Dead !Pool..v42s joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 58 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,100
Dead !Pool..v42s double-posted this 3 years ago, 58 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,101
@op what is your relationship status?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 40 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,102
@1,182,100 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
Ninjj is free to ignore any of it. Offering advice only serves to empower him, giving him more options and knowledge to select from at his choosing.
Ninjj is free to ignore any of it. Offering advice only serves to empower him, giving him more options and knowledge to select from at his choosing.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 40 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,103
@1,182,099 (B)
I agree, although a bit of self-improvement can go a long way. That is what we're discussing here. It reminds me a quote I learned in the academy:
> A month in the laboratory can often save an hour in the library.
I agree, although a bit of self-improvement can go a long way. That is what we're discussing here. It reminds me a quote I learned in the academy:
> A month in the laboratory can often save an hour in the library.
Anonymous A (OP) triple-posted this 3 years ago, 8 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,105
@1,182,101 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
Actually, I've refrained from giving advice here because I didn't think I could compete with the expertise of this community. Especially not with the guy who lied to his mom and the minichan community about his marital status.
Actually, I've refrained from giving advice here because I didn't think I could compete with the expertise of this community. Especially not with the guy who lied to his mom and the minichan community about his marital status.
Anonymous A (OP) quadruple-posted this 3 years ago, 16 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,106
@1,182,101 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
I forgot to ask: what's your relationship status? Would you consider being in a relationship with ninjj? If so, perfect! You live reasonably close to ninjj, no? I've seen long distance relationships work over much longer distances than I think both you are apart, if I recall correctly. If not, then why not? What makes him un-dateable in your view? We can work with this, or at least I hope so.
I forgot to ask: what's your relationship status? Would you consider being in a relationship with ninjj? If so, perfect! You live reasonably close to ninjj, no? I've seen long distance relationships work over much longer distances than I think both you are apart, if I recall correctly. If not, then why not? What makes him un-dateable in your view? We can work with this, or at least I hope so.
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 4 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,114
ugh
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 51 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,118
Killer Lettuce🌹 !HonkUK.BIE joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 2 hours later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,124
ninjj
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,128
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 26 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,133
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 9 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,134
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,135
@previous (J)
thanks it's been hard since I moved out of the city
@1,182,118 (H)
want to go back to the Bay
thanks it's been hard since I moved out of the city
@1,182,118 (H)
want to go back to the Bay
Dead !Pool..v42s replied with this 3 years ago, 14 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,137
@1,182,102 (A)
Offering unwanted advice just makes it seem like one knows what's best for someone else, and its kinda rude.
@1,182,105 (A)
Woah, you can't compete with the expertise of nothing? That must be some grade a advice.
@1,182,106 (A)
You didn't answer my question about your relationship status, why would I give you information about mine?
Offering unwanted advice just makes it seem like one knows what's best for someone else, and its kinda rude.
@1,182,105 (A)
Woah, you can't compete with the expertise of nothing? That must be some grade a advice.
@1,182,106 (A)
You didn't answer my question about your relationship status, why would I give you information about mine?
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 2 hours later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,145
Anonymous J replied with this 3 years ago, 5 minutes later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,147
@previous (B)
Ninjj is western af, and not everybody who enjoys visiting honky tonks are like that. Please touch grass.
Ninjj is western af, and not everybody who enjoys visiting honky tonks are like that. Please touch grass.
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Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,148
@previous (J)
He is classy Western, which is quite different than inbred toothless hillbilly Western. Thanks, podnuh.
He is classy Western, which is quite different than inbred toothless hillbilly Western. Thanks, podnuh.
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 35 seconds later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,149
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,151
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,171
@1,182,137 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
> Offering unwanted advice just makes it seem like one knows what's best for someone else, and its kinda rude.
It doesn't make it seem like any of that. What would make you think that?
> Woah, you can't compete with the expertise of nothing? That must be some grade a advice.
As I said, I haven't offered any advice in this thread, so I'm not sure what you're on about. Are you mad at me or something?
> You didn't answer my question about your relationship status, why would I give you information about mine?
I'm not offering advice here, so I'm not sure why you care? I wouldn't be able to compete with others in this community, especially not compared to you! You live relatively close to ninjj, are his preferred gender (although I wouldn't want to assume, perhaps things have changed!), and even have similar interests (RE: posting on the same obscure forum for over a decade, interest in similar recreational substances, etc). Sounds like match making of the gods.
So then, regardless of your relationship status, would you, hypothetically date ninjj? Why or why not? He can learn from this or he could choose not to. His choice. Don't deprive him of it if you care about him.
If you are not in a relationship and would date him, then it seems our work here is done! That's why they call this the Love Fora!
> Offering unwanted advice just makes it seem like one knows what's best for someone else, and its kinda rude.
It doesn't make it seem like any of that. What would make you think that?
> Woah, you can't compete with the expertise of nothing? That must be some grade a advice.
As I said, I haven't offered any advice in this thread, so I'm not sure what you're on about. Are you mad at me or something?
> You didn't answer my question about your relationship status, why would I give you information about mine?
I'm not offering advice here, so I'm not sure why you care? I wouldn't be able to compete with others in this community, especially not compared to you! You live relatively close to ninjj, are his preferred gender (although I wouldn't want to assume, perhaps things have changed!), and even have similar interests (RE: posting on the same obscure forum for over a decade, interest in similar recreational substances, etc). Sounds like match making of the gods.
So then, regardless of your relationship status, would you, hypothetically date ninjj? Why or why not? He can learn from this or he could choose not to. His choice. Don't deprive him of it if you care about him.
If you are not in a relationship and would date him, then it seems our work here is done! That's why they call this the Love Fora!
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 25 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,172
Anonymous A (OP) triple-posted this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,173
@1,182,114 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
Please address these allegations: @1,182,094 (A) your reputation is on the line.
Please address these allegations: @1,182,094 (A) your reputation is on the line.
Anonymous A (OP) quadruple-posted this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,174
@1,182,151 (B)
As evidenced by your complete lack of advice in this thread? Do you believe ninjj is perfect and could do nothing to improve his life or personality both for himself and for the purpose of attracting a girlfriend? If not, then buck up or shut up. Let's hear where he can improve.
As evidenced by your complete lack of advice in this thread? Do you believe ninjj is perfect and could do nothing to improve his life or personality both for himself and for the purpose of attracting a girlfriend? If not, then buck up or shut up. Let's hear where he can improve.
Anonymous A (OP) quintuple-posted this 3 years ago, 47 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,175
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,179
Green !StaYqkzUPc double-posted this 3 years ago, 39 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,180
But yes, I'm a double standards hypocrite 😎
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,184
If I've learned one thing from this community, it's that not being completely honest with someone can get that person killed. For example, telling a trans person that they pass, when you believe otherwise. I learned this from an established member here and a self-proclaimed expert on these and related topics, so, naturally, I've accepted this view without any further thought, as should you.
The same thing is happening here. The complete radio silence of advice here is sending a clear message: that you don't give a fuck about ninjj. You'd rather hide behind the comfort of fake smiles and appearances than to offer an honest opinion that could actually help him and dramatically improve his life.
The same thing is happening here. The complete radio silence of advice here is sending a clear message: that you don't give a fuck about ninjj. You'd rather hide behind the comfort of fake smiles and appearances than to offer an honest opinion that could actually help him and dramatically improve his life.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,187
@1,182,180 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
@1,182,179 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
From the bottom of my heart, thanks for being honest, Green.
Back on point: what advice do you have for ninjj?
Let me make it even easier for you: what advice would you give to yourself? What, do you believe, is holding you back from having a loving relationship? Ninjj could learn from this too, potentially.
@1,182,179 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
From the bottom of my heart, thanks for being honest, Green.
Back on point: what advice do you have for ninjj?
Let me make it even easier for you: what advice would you give to yourself? What, do you believe, is holding you back from having a loving relationship? Ninjj could learn from this too, potentially.
Green !StaYqkzUPc replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,190
@1,182,184 (A)
Ok, I'll fall for the bait. ninjj is one of the most popular posters here. He is not (to my knowledge) posting here at the moment. He has not specifically asked for relationship advice, getting him help that he doesn't want may be counterproductive. ninjj is also attractive and successful enough that he can get a girlfriend if he really puts himself out here. Also, look at the people who you're asking to help ninjj. One of our posters is middle aged and struggles with alcohol. One of the posters is mentally ill and writes nonsensical essays with complex words that do not even exist. Then there's me and I'm not even going to open that can of worms. You essentially want an obscure forum of mentally ill people to help someone who is doing better than most here. Hell, ninjj is probably more qualified to give us all relationship advice.
Ok, I'll fall for the bait. ninjj is one of the most popular posters here. He is not (to my knowledge) posting here at the moment. He has not specifically asked for relationship advice, getting him help that he doesn't want may be counterproductive. ninjj is also attractive and successful enough that he can get a girlfriend if he really puts himself out here. Also, look at the people who you're asking to help ninjj. One of our posters is middle aged and struggles with alcohol. One of the posters is mentally ill and writes nonsensical essays with complex words that do not even exist. Then there's me and I'm not even going to open that can of worms. You essentially want an obscure forum of mentally ill people to help someone who is doing better than most here. Hell, ninjj is probably more qualified to give us all relationship advice.
Anonymous B replied with this 3 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,191
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,194
@1,182,190 (Green !StaYqkzUPc)
Thank you green, after 80 replies, you've made the first legitimate good faith post in response to mine.
> He has not specifically asked for relationship advice, getting him help that he doesn't want may be counterproductive.
I disagree. He is free to ignore it. If or when he decides he's interested in advice, then he'll have this thread to come back to. Almost like a gift from us, the minichan community, to him. A gift card of sort which he can use at any time, or never.
> Then there's me and I'm not even going to open that can of worms.
No, let's open that can. That's precisely what I'm asking you to do. I think it could help ninjj. It might not. But it definitely won't if we don't try.
> Hell, ninjj is probably more qualified to give us all relationship advice.
At least one person on this forum is happily married, but this person has remained mysteriously silent here. In fact, that person expressed shock and dismay that ninjj is single. Clearly something is not adding up.
Another person here, in this thread, has refused to clarify their relationship status. So that's yet another person that could potentially help, but is refusing to.
Again, thank you green for making the first legitimate reply here.
Thank you green, after 80 replies, you've made the first legitimate good faith post in response to mine.
> He has not specifically asked for relationship advice, getting him help that he doesn't want may be counterproductive.
I disagree. He is free to ignore it. If or when he decides he's interested in advice, then he'll have this thread to come back to. Almost like a gift from us, the minichan community, to him. A gift card of sort which he can use at any time, or never.
> Then there's me and I'm not even going to open that can of worms.
No, let's open that can. That's precisely what I'm asking you to do. I think it could help ninjj. It might not. But it definitely won't if we don't try.
> Hell, ninjj is probably more qualified to give us all relationship advice.
At least one person on this forum is happily married, but this person has remained mysteriously silent here. In fact, that person expressed shock and dismay that ninjj is single. Clearly something is not adding up.
Another person here, in this thread, has refused to clarify their relationship status. So that's yet another person that could potentially help, but is refusing to.
Again, thank you green for making the first legitimate reply here.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,222
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC double-posted this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,223
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,225
@1,182,222 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
What suggestions do you have for ninjj, our fora friend?
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
What suggestions do you have for ninjj, our fora friend?
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,226
@previous (A)
I think you should donate some of your $250 million to him so he can have more confidence
I think you should donate some of your $250 million to him so he can have more confidence
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 38 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,228
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 45 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,230
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,232
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
You seem very confused. I am asking you, an expert in happy relationships, what suggestions you have.
You seem very confused. I am asking you, an expert in happy relationships, what suggestions you have.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,234
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Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,240
@previous (A)
Use some of your money to improve his life on various ways. You should Venmo him right away
Use some of your money to improve his life on various ways. You should Venmo him right away
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,244
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,246
@previous (A)
@1,182,240 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
im gonna take kooks suggestion and start accepting donations thanks ask me for my Venmo op
@1,182,240 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
im gonna take kooks suggestion and start accepting donations thanks ask me for my Venmo op
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,249
@previous (shelly)
Sure, post it. Post your bank account and routing numbers too. Venmo puts limits on how much money they'll transfer.
But this thread is really about what you can do to improve yourself, not what you can do to rely on other people, per-say. So, let's now re-focus the discussion back to that. Thanks.
Sure, post it. Post your bank account and routing numbers too. Venmo puts limits on how much money they'll transfer.
But this thread is really about what you can do to improve yourself, not what you can do to rely on other people, per-say. So, let's now re-focus the discussion back to that. Thanks.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 34 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,250
@1,182,244 (A)
I think he should talk to you and decide on a plan depending on when the money transfer goes through
I think he should talk to you and decide on a plan depending on when the money transfer goes through
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC double-posted this 3 years ago, 44 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,252
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,254
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
You'll have to walk me through it.
Now what do you suggest he do to improve himself?
You'll have to walk me through it.
Now what do you suggest he do to improve himself?
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 29 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,255
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 40 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,256
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 50 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,259
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@1,182,257 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
This is a fascinating topic and something you should make your own topic about if you want to discuss it.
Let's be a bit more constructive and help ninjj get a gf by suggesting ideas for how he can improve himself here.
This is a fascinating topic and something you should make your own topic about if you want to discuss it.
Let's be a bit more constructive and help ninjj get a gf by suggesting ideas for how he can improve himself here.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,264
@previous (A)
I'm going to give you a crypto wallet when I get home and explain to you how to use it
Then you'll send ninnj a good chunk of bitcoin to help him improve his life
I'm going to give you a crypto wallet when I get home and explain to you how to use it
Then you'll send ninnj a good chunk of bitcoin to help him improve his life
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,266
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 52 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,268
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 35 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,269
shelly replied with this 3 years ago, 1 second later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,270
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ill just leave this here
ill just leave this here
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,273
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,278
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shelly double-posted this 3 years ago, 14 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,284
because they will laugh at you. money gets you bitches
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,288
dw !p9hU6ckyqw replied with this 3 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,182,347
what's honky tonk