Topic: I really wish I was into men.
Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago #104,459
I can't say I fantasize about men but I wish I was gay. At night, I've not been having romantic dreams about women for years now, today I have dreams about dating men because having a woman attracted to me sounds so unrealistic even to my subconscious. It's just so hard to meet women's harsh standards, I'm trying to exit the red pill but it's a fact that if I were gay (or had an attractive face as a hetero male) I wouldn't be involuntary celibate, I wouldn't even know what the red pill is since I wouldn't have my dating insecurities in the first place. I'd have a boyfriend and also plenty of sexual experience with other guys.
q. joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 11 minutes later[^] [v] #1,176,143
im like a fucking magnet for gay men and we have plenty in htown. too bad im straight, wish i was a magnet for chicks :(
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Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,147
We know!!!
Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 50 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,154
Just wanted to say this is not me.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,155
I'd suggest that you try sex with men, simply to find out if they turn you on. I don't mean anal. Try giving some guys blowjobs. Do you get hard? Or is it not a turn on at all? Are you able to orgasm when sucked?
Keep this a secret, tell no one.
If it turns out that you don't get turned on, go to plan B. Becoming more attractive. Unless you are slim, my opinion is to lose weight. I'd suggest losing a kilogram a month to make it easy.
PS the majority of women do not have "harsh standards".
Keep this a secret, tell no one.
If it turns out that you don't get turned on, go to plan B. Becoming more attractive. Unless you are slim, my opinion is to lose weight. I'd suggest losing a kilogram a month to make it easy.
PS the majority of women do not have "harsh standards".
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Anonymous F replied with this 3 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,158
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
I've found that women have various standards, some high, some low, some standards contradict other women's standards. You simply can't predict a woman's standards without spending time, in some cases lots of time with her.
I've found that women have various standards, some high, some low, some standards contradict other women's standards. You simply can't predict a woman's standards without spending time, in some cases lots of time with her.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 24 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,159
@1,176,157 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
Right. If OP is having so much trouble meeting a woman, He should try these things:
1. Smell good
2. Dress well
3. Learn what types of things women like to talk about
Right. If OP is having so much trouble meeting a woman, He should try these things:
1. Smell good
2. Dress well
3. Learn what types of things women like to talk about
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,161
@1,176,158 (F)
Agreed. But there are enough women with low bar standards that most men who actually talk to women could probably get a girlfriend
Agreed. But there are enough women with low bar standards that most men who actually talk to women could probably get a girlfriend
Anonymous F replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,162
If I could go back in time to my teens and change one thing, it would be to spend time with women and engage with them and get more comfortable with them, asking them out, getting comfortable with rejection, seeing what skills I needed and how to develop those skills.
I'd suggest that OP has a 12 month plan on developing his abilities with women. Starting with:
Step 0: promise himself to never use dating apps
Step 1: talking to women he would never want to fuck
I'd suggest that OP has a 12 month plan on developing his abilities with women. Starting with:
Step 0: promise himself to never use dating apps
Step 1: talking to women he would never want to fuck
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,163
Anonymous F replied with this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,164
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
I guess not. If he talks to them, he won't feel overwhelmed with attraction and feel nervous. Ideally he won't feel nervous at all.
I guess not. If he talks to them, he won't feel overwhelmed with attraction and feel nervous. Ideally he won't feel nervous at all.
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Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 19 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,168
If you're into men then you're into men. Don't worry about shitty societal labels people put on you. Labels such as gay, bi, abro, pomo, etc. are nothing more than ways of further dividing ourselves in a failed attempt to make ourselves feel as if we're normal when that isn't something that needs to be proven.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 45 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,176,174
Why don't you try sucking a dick?
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Hope you are okay OP.
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It seems OPenis has abandoned yet, another thread.
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@1,176,365 (Indy)
> Who do you think made this thread? Go on, say it.
Whom do you think I think made this thread? Go on, say it.
> Who do you think made this thread? Go on, say it.
Whom do you think I think made this thread? Go on, say it.
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Come to England, you'll soon turn gay.