Topic: Why do I want kids suddenly?
Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago #103,700
Mid 20s single man here. I've always been pretty anti-kid but lately I'm like "you know that might be a good idea."
It is kinda selfish to use a kid to give you purpose though, so it's best I don't have one
It is kinda selfish to use a kid to give you purpose though, so it's best I don't have one
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 11 minutes later[^] [v] #1,169,275
My opinion as someone childfree - figure out whether you really really want children. If the answer is no, get a vasectomy and don't date mothers EVER. Your quality of life will be high for a long long time.
boof joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,169,291
did Michael Jackson suddenly
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Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 4 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,169,312
idk. reptile brain say breed? logic brain say lock a bitch down? society brain say that what I'm supposed to do? or selfless brain saying damn I want to procreate and make a child with someone who I love that I can love and cherish and raise to be a shining light in the darkness of this world
Anonymous G double-posted this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,169,313
i think my shit genes would make for a sad child on this sad and doomed planet so I don't think I would unless I had a partner who could compensate for my outlook and wanted children. but I also think I'll probably never have a partner again for the reason I wouldn't have a child
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 6 hours later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,169,324
Grover here. These feelings are not normal. Seek help.