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Topic: What is the point of relationships?

Anonymous A started this discussion 3 years ago #103,612

Even if a relationship is going great and seems absolutely perfect you never know if it’s going to just suddenly end. We’re at a stage in our evolution where procreation isn’t that important anymore. Why even bother with the stress and anxiety that a relationship offers? Just stay single and you’d be much happier for it. Learn to be alone and you’d find true freedom in that. Seriously, fuck relationshits, regardless of gender. Fuck them on death’s ears.

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Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 10 minutes later[^] [v] #1,168,473

@OP
Have you ever had a relationship?

boof joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,474

some poeple are wired to desire a sweetie, apparently some just chase holes

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 38 minutes later, 53 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,478

@previous (boof)
That’s all well and good. Until that sweetie turns out to be a bitch who leaves you and loses interest in you.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 32 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,483

They're fun and sometimes you get to fuck.

boof replied with this 3 years ago, 17 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,484

@1,168,478 (A)
Jeepers what a cunt that bitch

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,486

@1,168,483 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
That’s not a relationship, that’s a hook up.

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 24 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,487

Sorry you got into a breakup OP. Hopefully you'll find someone new soon.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 16 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,488

@previous (E)
Nah, being single is where it’s at. A relationship is not needed in order to achieve happiness in this world. Though I never said I experienced a break up.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 3 years ago, 4 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,495

@1,168,486 (A)
People fuck in committed relationships, not just hookups fyi.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,496

@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)

Glug. No it isn't.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 27 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,497

death's ears huh

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 7 hours later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,540

@1,168,495 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
If a relationship is based entirely on sex and lack any forms of intimacy, then that is pretty much a hookup.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,541

I know something intimate and loving, but I am not allowed to discuss it here.

Anonymous E replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,542

Any man who does this NEEDS to do one thing. Get a vasectomy. How do you get a vasectomy when you're 20? A few ideas. Say you were diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, have violent episodes and are planning on killing yourself when you reach 29.9 years old. Another is to say you went overseas and knocked up a few women in 3rd world countries, one pregnancy was twins. Obviously you need proof of this so buy some photos online etc.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,543

@previous (E)
Why are you assuming the person was a guy? You know girls are just as capable of breaking somebody's heart. Gender has nothing to do with stupid relationship bullshit like this. Fuck straight/gay marriage and fuck polyamory. Relationships are shit.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 3 years ago, 44 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,549

@1,168,540 (A)
That's why I said "sometimes". Relationships are fun. Doing activities with other people is fun. Having someone you love and care for, and who does the same for you is fun. Relationships are fun when they're good. That is the point of relationships.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 32 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,557

Op, have you ever had a long term relationship?

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,560

OP could be posting after a breakup, which was my initial prediction. Or they could be a forever alone.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 57 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,567

@1,168,549 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
That's why people tend to have friends.

@previous (J)
Forever alone is the only true way to be.

Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 3 years ago, 57 seconds later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,568

@1,168,560 (J)
Or they witnessed one happen.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 27 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,569

@previous (A)
Who has broken up?

Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 5 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,570

> We’re at a stage in our evolution where procreation isn’t that important anymore.

There won't be any more humans (and thus no more evolution) if we don't procreate. Not everyone has to of course but it is kind of necessary to keep the whole thing going.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 3 years ago, 36 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,572

@1,168,567 (A)
A relationship is a turbocharged friendship. Thanks.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 7 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,573

@1,168,567 (A)
Op, maybe you need to date

Anonymous J replied with this 3 years ago, 23 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,574

I feel the same way about friendship. It's highly unlikely I'll ever have friends, I haven't had a friend since 2004.

Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 47 seconds later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,575

@previous (J)
What happened in 2004?

Anonymous J replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,576

@previous (L)

I got involved with a female friend, so she got transferred from friend category to girlfriend category. We broke up in 2011 and I haven't bothered seeking out friendships. I find that the energy required to start and maintain friendships isn't worth the rewards I get.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 1 hour later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,600

@1,168,574 (J)
Friendships have worth unlike relationships. Humans still need social connections. And considering how pussy/dick is easy to get you could always just hook up with somebody without worrying about any long time relationships. Kind of sad the world is like this, but yeah, relationships aren’t needed.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,602

@previous (A)
But for many women, they prefer sex with long term partners.
Look at the orgasm rates of vagina people regarding one night stands.

You sound like an incel

Anonymous F replied with this 3 years ago, 17 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,604

@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)

Look at orgasm rates for women in general. Also, the fact that women tend to have orgasms more frequently when they are in a lesbian relationship.

Anonymous E replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,605

@1,168,602 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)

I don't think that OP is an incel, which I assume means he hates women. He hasn't shown any hate towards women. I'm assuming he's male because 99+% of posters here are male. I think that he's as disillusioned towards relationships as I am towards friendships (I'm J, on another device).

Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 26 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,606

@1,168,602 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)

> Look at the orgasm rates of vagina people regarding one night stands.

> vagina people

🫃

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 3 years ago, 41 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,609

@1,168,602 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
What orgasm gap? I cum every time. If women are worse at cumming than men that sounds like a them problem.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 11 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,610

@1,168,604 (F)
That's true, but its the absolute worst when it's casual hookups with men

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC double-posted this 3 years ago, 27 seconds later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,611

@1,168,605 (E)
You could probably have friends if you wanted them

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC triple-posted this 3 years ago, 17 seconds later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,612

@1,168,606 (M)
I stand by my statement

Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 4 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,613

@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
It's not transphobic to use the term women, instead of infantile, degrading misogynistic shit like "vagina people".

Shouldn't it be "front-hole people" for extra points?

Look at yourself.

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Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,614

@previous (N)
I don't think it's degrading. I just wanted to make it very clear that I meant a vagina persona and not a penis person.
Also I've used this type of language for a very long time. You're just now noticing it.

Also Op is trans and I wanted to specify for them

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Anonymous N replied with this 3 years ago, 21 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,617

@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
It's the type of language that reduces an entire sex class to the genitals they typically possess, you don't get more dehumanizing than that. But fine, I won't be a twat front-hole-haver about it. Carry on!

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𝔹𝕝𝕠𝕞 joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 55 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,620

@1,168,614 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)

Is op Catherine

Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 9 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,648

@1,168,617 (N)

> It's the type of language that reduces an entire sex class to the genitals they typically possess

Especially since these sex classes have many other properties that distinguishes them as a sex. Hormone levels, brain structure, chest size, the shape of their body as a whole, the pitch of their vocal cords, and so many other aspects we haven't got into.

Modern gender theory is the most reductionist approach to the subject.

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,650

@1,168,620 (𝔹𝕝𝕠𝕞)
Yes

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC double-posted this 3 years ago, 44 seconds later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,651

@1,168,617 (N)
Maybe I should have said female, but I meant anyone born with a vagina

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC triple-posted this 3 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #1,168,652

@1,168,648 (P)
Yes but why would I name all of these for this instance?
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