Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago#10,128
I am a hetero male, and I love to both give and receive anal. I have never pressured my partners, it has nothing to do with control or insecurtiy, what kind of crap is that!
It requires trust, communication, and intimacy, and builds these into the relationship as well. Patience, gradually building form fingers and tongue, to small toys and up, allow one to relax and adjust. Lots and lots of lube, wehn you think you have enough, use more.
Waterbased Slilquid Sassy is fantastic. Not only are the feelings of penetration, fullness and G or P spot stimulation out of this world, but it adds a new, and much deeper, dimension to the relationship.
In short: it’s not dirty, it’s not evil, it doesn’t hurt, if done properly, it can add spice to the relationship, and last but certainly not least, it will give you mind blowing orgasms.
In response to all you mindless dogma espousing, purtiannical sheep…get thee to a monastary, and keep your vacuous comments to yourself!
> I am a hetero male, and I love to both give and receive anal. I have never pressured my partners, it has nothing to do with control or insecurtiy, what kind of crap is that! > > It requires trust, communication, and intimacy, and builds these into the relationship as well. Patience, gradually building form fingers and tongue, to small toys and up, allow one to relax and adjust. Lots and lots of lube, wehn you think you have enough, use more. > > Waterbased Slilquid Sassy is fantastic. Not only are the feelings of penetration, fullness and G or P spot stimulation out of this world, but it adds a new, and much deeper, dimension to the relationship. > In short: it’s not dirty, it’s not evil, it doesn’t hurt, if done properly, it can add Old Spice to the relationship, and last but certainly not least, it will give you mind blowing orgasms. > > In response to all you mindless dogma espousing, purtiannical sheep…get thee to a monastary, and keep your vacuous comments to yourself!
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,506
Glug.
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,507
@previous (C)
I am a hetero male, and I love to both give and receive anal. I have never pressured my partners, it has nothing to do with control or insecurtiy, what kind of crap is that!
It requires trust, communication, and intimacy, and builds these into the relationship as well. Patience, gradually building form fingers and tongue, to small toys and up, allow one to relax and adjust. Lots and lots of lube, wehn you think you have enough, use more.
Waterbased Slilquid Sassy is fantastic. Not only are the feelings of penetration, fullness and G or P spot stimulation out of this world, but it adds a new, and much deeper, dimension to the relationship.
In short: it’s not dirty, it’s not evil, it doesn’t hurt, if done properly, it can add spice to the relationship, and last but certainly not least, it will give you mind blowing orgasms.
In response to all you mindless dogma espousing, purtiannical sheep…get thee to a monastary, and keep your vacuous comments to yourself!
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,514
I am amazed by the closed mindness of lots of people here. Criticizing people for doing anal sex using the old “it is not natural†excuse is typical of bigot, religious people.
Anal sex is not natural? what has to do nature with men? do we follow nature like ants? aren’t we evolved creatures? do you know that in nature ill ones, criplled ones, weak and old ones are just left dying by other animals? this is NATURAL. So what? do you think we man should act the same?
should we change mate each new season like most animal do? is monogamy natural?
Please stop using the non-existen nature argument. We are Homo Sapiens Sapiens. We do what we want, not what nature tells us. Otherwise what would be the difference between us and baboons?
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 13 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,520
> I am amazed by the closed mindness of lots of people here. Criticizing people for doing anal sex using the old “it is not natural†excuse is typical of bigot, religious people. > > Anal sex is not natural? what has to do nature with men? do we follow nature like ants? aren’t we evolved creatures? do you know that in nature ill ones, criplled ones, weak and old ones are just left dying by other animals? this is NATURAL. So what? do you think we man should act the same? > should we change mate each new season like most animal do? is monogamy natural? > > Please stop using the non-existen nature argument. We are Homo Sapiens Sapiens. We do what we want, not what nature tells us. Otherwise what would be the difference between us and balloons?
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 14 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,524
@180,514 (A)
I think you and Mountainman would get along fabulously.
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,528
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 43 seconds later, 17 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,529
@180,524 (C)
In fact, many Biblical passages allude to the act of anal sex between men and women.
Lamentations 2:10 describes how “The virgins of Jerusalem have bowed their heads to the ground,†indicating how a virginal maidens should position themselves to receive anal sex. Another suggestive scripture tells of a woman’s pride in her “valley†(referring to her buttocks and the cleft between them) and entices her lover to ejaculate against her backside: “How boastful you are about the valleys! O backsliding daughter who trusts in her treasures, {saying,} ‘ Who will come against me?’ (Jeremiah 49:4) And in the Song of Songs, the lover urges his mate to allow him to enter her from behind: “Draw me after you, let us make haste.†(Song of Solomon, 1:4)
Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 33 seconds later, 18 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,530
babby
Voice of !WisdomHsuU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 23 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,538
> I am a hetero male, and I love to both give and receive anal.
Unless you are referring to being pegged and fucking a girl's anus, you are gay/bi.
ltamake !!onnLC5KY8 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 38 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,552
sup to4str
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 52 seconds later, 39 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,553
A boyfriend in college introduced me to anal sex. Until that time I had only had oral and vaginal sex. He was good sized, but after plenty of foreplay and lube I found that it felt amazing – just very “fullâ€. Now that I’m married I so have anal sex with my husband and I’m able to achieve an amazing orgasm if I stimulate my clitoris while having anal sex.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 50 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,559
I liked the Hamlet quote. High-brow.
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 54 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,563
I have read alot of the comments by these lovely posters and it appears that by quick consensus that most posters here stated that they do it to please their man.
So with that said if the man did not request anal sex of them they would not have anal sex. Being a man and having been with my husband for over twenty five years. My desire for anal sex started about ten years ago for some unknown reason. I have been the only man he has ever been with so it’s not like some have suggested to conquer a first again.
I personally really like it allot and well my husband does it to please me. That is really not a nice situation I would prefer to be in but it appears to work. I do find it interesting that men can have fantastic oral and anal relations with their man but hell, we always want more.
Allot of times I feel guilty divulging myself in a sexual act that he does not prefer. Not sure what drives this but I have accomplished having this type of relations fewer and fewer times.
I do agree with what some have said as it being a TABOO and I am sure that men like myself enjoy it more we feel we are taking something that is not freely given. I think if it was in my case “ Yeah do me in the butt any time you want and I love it and yada yada yada .†Men wouldn’t want it that much. I think deep down it’s a control factor and when the control is gone the need for it as well is gone…
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 57 minutes after the original post[^][v]#180,565
Inb4 sewer pipe.
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#180,567
Firstly my unlimited RESPECT,VALUE AND SALUTATION to all and thier personel opinions.
1-WHY WE HAVE NATURAL LUBRICANT FROM THE VAGINA AND NOT FROM ANUS ?
2-ANAL SEX IS CREATED BY MAN AND IT DOES NOT EXIST IN NEITHER ANIMAL KINGDOM NOR PLANTS !
3-WE ARE SURE THAT THE MAN DOES NOT ENJOY THE PLEASURE OF SEX IN ANY OTHER FORM MORE THAN HAVING IT THROUGH VAGINA .
4-CREATIVITY OF POSITIONS AND STYLES WAS ONLY DESIGN TO FEEL MORE SENSATIONAL BETWEEN PARTNERS OF DIFERENT SIZES SO ON AND SO FOR BUT NOT FOR ANAL .
5-SEX IS NOT NEW TO HUMANS NOR RELIGIONS WHERE WE CAN FIND GREAT PEOPLE TOOK THE IMPORTANCE TO EXPLAIN ABOUT SEX,FOR AN EXAMPLE KAMASUTRA .BUT NON;I REPEAT NON OF THEM RECOMENDED ANAL SEX .
6-MORALLY NO OTHER CREATURE WORST THAN US .
I CONCLUDE,WHY SHOULD WE GO FOR AN ALTERNATIVE WHEN WE HAVE THE BEST OF WHAT WE WANT.
A MAN AFTER SERVING SENTENCE IN PRISON IF HE IS GIVEN A CHOICE OF VAGINA OR ANUS OR ORAL OR MACHINE OR ETC ? ALL OF US KNOW WHAT HE WILL GO FOR.
THAT IS ALL FOR NOW.
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#180,569
@previous (G)
Sup syntax. hate the new text voice. Please go and die.
Nevermind, that's your regular text voice. Still, die though.
(Edited 1 minute later.)
Falco !PZmcClOUDk replied with this 15 years ago, 53 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#180,632
vocalon !!dX0knrTu5 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#180,650
what did i miss
Falco !PZmcClOUDk replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#180,660
@previous (vocalon !!dX0knrTu5)
a rainstorm of floppy penises.
Anonymous O joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#180,811
I am a hetero male, and I love to both give and receive anal. I have never pressured my partners, it has nothing to do with control or insecurtiy, what kind of crap is that!
It requires trust, communication, and intimacy, and builds these into the relationship as well. Patience, gradually building form fingers and tongue, to small toys and up, allow one to relax and adjust. Lots and lots of lube, wehn you think you have enough, use more.
Waterbased Slilquid Sassy is fantastic. Not only are the feelings of penetration, fullness and G or P spot stimulation out of this world, but it adds a new, and much deeper, dimension to the relationship.
In short: it’s not dirty, it’s not evil, it doesn’t hurt, if done properly, it can add spice to the relationship, and last but certainly not least, it will give you mind blowing orgasms.
In response to all you mindless dogma espousing, purtiannical sheep…get thee to a monastary, and keep your vacuous comments to yourself!
Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 57 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#180,852
but...
you maek poop outta that...
Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 days later, 4 days after the original post[^][v]#184,622
OP has a point.
protip !!pMmAiEwOm replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 days after the original post[^][v]#184,625