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Topic: My dads wife just died of cancer

Erik !jzYkdX7lIw started this discussion 5 years ago #100,653

All suddenly and I didn't know. He also confirmed his father (my grandfather) died last year which I suspected since he stopped signing birthday and Christmas cards.

dw joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 8 minutes later[^] [v] #1,135,666

Condolences.

Erik !jzYkdX7lIw (OP) replied with this 5 years ago, 6 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,667

@previous (dw)
I know it's dark but in a way (although not this way) I was hoping she died before him because he is quite wealthy.

dw replied with this 5 years ago, 10 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,668

@previous (Erik !jzYkdX7lIw)
i retract my condolences

blom joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 8 minutes later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,671

Why didn't he tell you when your grandad died

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 6 minutes later, 40 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,675

Sounds like a fucked up family.

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 25 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,680

@OP

> He also confirmed his father (my grandfather) died last year which I suspected since he stopped signing birthday and Christmas cards.

To be honest that's pretty spooky. He continued to send you cards from beyond the grave but didn't sign them?

Erik !AltRitexT6 joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,683

@previous (E)
I normally get a card from both my grandparents but for a little over a year now only my grandmother had been signing them.

@1,135,671 (blom)
I'm kind of the black sheep of the family.

Anonymous E replied with this 5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,684

@previous (Erik !AltRitexT6)

> I'm kind of the black sheep of the family.

Ironic.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,687

@1,135,683 (Erik !AltRitexT6)

> I normally get a card from both my grandparents but for a little over a year now only my grandmother had been signing them.
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> I'm kind of the black sheep of the family.

Did you ever think to ask her why? Sometimes the black sheep title is earned not handed to you.

TopShagger !AltRitexT6 replied with this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,689

@previous (G)
I don't need to ask, I already know.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,690

@previous (TopShagger !AltRitexT6)
Right then, let's hear the story. What did you do?

Anonymous G replied with this 5 years ago, 14 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,691

@1,135,689 (TopShagger !AltRitexT6)
Now you do...but what about a year ago when she stopped signing both names?

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,715

You should probably try to visit your remaining grandparent, or at least call

TopShagger !jzYkdX7lIw (OP) replied with this 5 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,718

@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
I refuse

blom replied with this 5 years ago, 14 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,720

@1,135,691 (G)

Fr wtf man

Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 5 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,739

@1,135,718 (TopShagger !jzYkdX7lIw)
Why??

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 12 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,743

I'm sorry man. Cancer sucks.

Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 25 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,749

Your dad's father is your grandfather? Since when?

Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 3 hours later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,786

@1,135,683 (Erik !AltRitexT6)
You don't say!

Rabbi Tuckman !pbgiLp1zxI joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,135,787

I am very sorry. May her memory be a blessing, and my your grandfather's memory be a blessing.
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