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...and we both stop being assumptive strangers and think we know each other well enough to tell each other how awful we are, and taking every chance we can to trash talk each other and gossip to every person in every random thread like we're not both old enough to get on a bus and go have a slap fight in georgia. Which i won't do, because cock fighting is illegal there and, lets face it, you talk like you got a real set of danglers on you, and i just can't risk going to jail being this pretty. so.
from this point forward, i'll cease with the baseless insults and accusations and get along happily as friends and not gladly be a bitch who won't just lay back and take it when someone decides they think it's funny to fuck me in front of a bunch of random strangers.
I'm not anonymous charlie anymore, or bookshelf or squeegee or anyone other than nicki.
who are you? I'm not ashamed of myself or afraid people will find out the things i say on the internet. cause i'm funny as fuck, and everyone knows it and i'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings or smear anyone's name with libelous claims about them. i don't know what you're doing, or why, or what kind of psychological evaluation it would take to understand a single person other than myself.
so, you can be my friend and i can your friend and we can not like each other like girls learn how to do in high school.
politely. like me and becky, who get along just fine. (i'm kidding becky, i like you. and i'd probably like kook too except she takes cheap shots and low blows and technically i still have to worry about that since it's all people seem to wanna focus on and make character judgements over.)
up to you. or i can keep being funny at your expense. i'll just go be funny somewhere else and forget about it. if y'all don't like me here i'm sure everyone will thank you for keeping it up anyway.
but, i can't keep it up.
and i don't want to anyway.
so, i'm sorry.
and i have a busy weekend so i probably won't have time to come back to this for a few days and you can let me know.
nicki (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 58 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#1,188,463
@1,188,444 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
i feel the same way about you. but you don't know me or what motivates me in my relationships or what kind of relationships i have with people IRL or what motivates people in their relationships with me, how or where our time is spent together, how we treat each other, want from each other, how i value my own worth or the worth of anyone else, and i can disagree with you without making judgements on your character.
and i can apologise for not being nice to you when it hurt my feels when you assumed i was irresponsible for an illness that was forced onto me and nearly killed me because of the neglect of others. and i'm sorry i wasn't, because the way i explained it at the time was met with questions that seemed to be callous and i took it as hurtful. and i took it as hurtful to have my relationship judged and i felt badgered like you were throwing it in my face and was supposed to feel inferior to you and all women because you appeared to believe i should.
so, i'm sorry i let a disagreement turn nasty and sink to petty insults. i'm sorry i hurt your feelings, i don't hate you or want you to think i can't disagree without trying to make you feel bad or look bad to other people.
nicki (OP) replied with this 3 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,188,528
@1,188,517 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC) @1,188,516 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
yeah, you sure did kook. i've told you repeatedly. and you're still just being passive aggressive and rude. is it purposeful or what?
> Im not being rude > > I'm sorry for any misunderstanding and I wish for you to have a good partner. You deserve that, and I would say the same to my cis female friends
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 3 years ago, 43 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,188,537
@1,188,532 (nicki)
You made it sound like he wouldn't be seen with you in public. If he sees you in public, he is a good guy and is more likely to respect you
OP got mad, bc Kook said her boyfriend not wanting to be seen in public with her is unhealthy, also showing concern over her current situation. Now she's trying to kill the feud she thinks she started.
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 1 second later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,188,552
@1,188,549 (nicki)
i just performed several keyword searches in the topic and you did say that you met the grindr men in public on your dates, but that was very buried and you haven't reaffirmed that information since